π Tips for Courteous Poshing
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Simple things mean a lot. Please, thank you, yes, no. We use these on a daily basis in our world, so we should do the same when in the cyber community.
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katz2
@cboyd221 Does this cover it?
katz2
@elisehunter @nkhob @maxedout New listing
thevintageroze
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maxedout
πππππgreat info;)) really like the color palette u chose too;)
katz2
@nkhob @maxedout ππ
elisehunter
I love it!!!
katz2
@elisehunter ππ
katz2
@sjeichen Sandy, please check for readability/font size. ThanksπΉ
cboyd221
Clara, perfect!
katz2
@cboyd221 Great! Cindy, go ahead and copy it for your closet if you like.π
laurel0991
@katz2 please stay off my profile
katz2
@laurel0991 Ok. Done
clarkekassie
Thanks for sharing I am new it helps so much. I am going to read your tips
katz2
@clarkekassie If you have questions, feel free to ask. If I don't know, I'll point you to the person who does.πΉ
clarkekassie
Your the best! Thanks so much!
katz2
@clarkekassie ππ
dmallyx
@katz2 hii again !!! I just have a question ! This has been puzzling me but sometimes I see people comment on a listing and ask "will you do $XX shipped?" For example they will say "can you do $30 shipped" which essentially is them just asking "can you do $25" why don't they just ask for "$25" what is the whole point in saying "shipped" since shipping fees are regulated across the board for everyone ?! Thanks again hope you are having a good week :)
katz2
@dmallyx Hi, I can't say I've ever seen that, but, perhaps the buyer thinks they can get free shipping? They may not understand that the shipping amount is applied by Poshmark and not the seller. At any rate, you are correct that whichever way they say it, the end result is the same charge.
dmallyx
@katz2 βΊοΈβ¨ thank you !! Yes I figured the same thing ! Happy poshing !
katz2
@dmallyx ππ
supb
That looks great Clara. I thought of a small one.... Whats your lowest?
katz2
@supb That's a good one.
β¨π It's impolite to ask "what's your lowest." It's always better to offer a lower price and negotiate. πβ¨
polonisk
I'm new to posh @katz2 thanks for the tips!!!!
katz2
@polonisk Glad you like themπΉ
goldenpolkadot
@katz2 you are SUPAHHHH Courteous! Thank you SO much for Sharing my Closet while I was away...but silly, you didn't have to share SO much of it.....just a few would have been nice but you went above and beyond and I will never forget that!!! Thanks Again I appreciate you more thank you know
XOXO
~Olga
katz2
@partymk999 Thanks for the kind words, but I know you would do the same for me.πππππ
goldenpolkadot
@katz2 absolutely!!!
tuesdipedraza
Yes indeed :)
katz2
@tuesdipedraza ππ
cody7150
@katz2 awesome --to the point and spot on!
katz2
@cody7150 Thanksπ
nsep
@katz2 Hi I am new here at poshmark. Really enjoying reading your tips. Thanks!!!
katz2
@nsep You're welcomeπΉ
endlesslove24
If you girls could get together and report "highfashiongal1" I'd appreciate it - she has multiple accounts and has been using them to negotiate prices and act as if she is purchasing to swoop in on her other account and try to go lower.. She has committed to purchasing a pair of shoes from 3 of her accounts on my friends posting my friend got them all packaged up and ready to go 3 times she never followed through to purchase and just ignores when she is asked if she is still purchasing.. The last time she came back with harassment telling buyers to go but the shoes cheaper at macys to screw my friend over.. And she also posts all her items to gain buyers and sells ALL on PayPal or other apps to make more money.. I'd appreciate the help! Thanks girls!
katz2
@endlesslove24 The behavior you describe should be reported directly to Poshmark by the party involved. Please check out the FAQS under HOW CAN I REPORT A BAD LISTING OR USER.
endlesslove24
@katz2 thanks! I thought the user had to get multiple reports from different users.. I will have my friend do that :)
katz2
@endlesslove24 You're welcomeπ
fashionfever88
AMEN!!!! <3 <3 <3
katz2
@fashionfever88 ππ
arigrldesigns
@katz2 LπVE this! πΈπ·πππ
katz2
@pmgr22 Additional tips are always welcome. If you have one you'd like to add to any of these listings, please do so. We all benefit.πππ
newportchic
Thank you for all the shares! I will return the favor I just got caught up reading all your great posts on tips and tons of helpful info on all the posh 411 that I was unaware of! As you see all my likes on these posts my next step and to return the favor and share your items as you were so kind to do with mine. Thanks again and for te great tips for poshers like me that need it! That's awesome you took the time to do this! Very sweet and it's greatly appreciated! Thanks again! ππππππ
katz2
@newportchic Thanks for the kind words. Glad you find this helpful.π I hope to see your item (s) in the Host Pick room soon. πππ
dcrosebud
@katz2 πI was going to post this in my closet, but I thought I'd ask firstπ took a pic of it....really love this
katz2
@dcrosebud Thanks for asking, I appreciate it. Yes put it in your closet. We could all use reminders.πππ
dcrosebud
@katz2 πthanksπ
katz2
@dcrosebud πππ
dmallyx
@myrnamal :)
aprils2ndcloset
@ssadler06 @palmers π
aprils2ndcloset
@m_montosa @beautography @lakeforest π
aprils2ndcloset
@daliasg Helpful hints.
cutesydani
@katz2 thanks for sharing so much!!!!
katz2
@cutesydani You're welcomeπ
katz2
@suziq24 Thank you. π
myspoiledwife
Love it! Short, to the point, and soooo true. πΈ
katz2
@myspoiledwife Thank youππΊπ
grace2389
@katz2 great tips... Also why do people ask a seller hold items for them for x amount of days and then you never hear back from them? It is absolutely rude!
katz2
@grace2389 I agree, it's very rude. I put the wording "no holds" in my listing for that reason. I will hold for 24 hours for a gal I've already established a relationship with. Common courtesy is non-existent for some folks.
staceydemo
Thanks, for all your info, it really helped me. I hope I have a handle on things now . Thanks again your awesome!! , great getting to know you , I saw a post that you listed for me about yourself. So a little about me...I'm Stacey,stumbled upon Posh 2 weeks ago and absolutely love it. People have been so welcoming , HONEST and so friendly. I live in Aberdeen Maryland close to an Army Base ,Aberdeen Proving Ground, (about 20-30 min away from Baltimore, Md.) Family isnt in the Army, born and raised here. Met my husband in high school,we've been married for 7 years this September and have one incredible, sweet little boy together (he's on my page in his first football jersey) . I used to be a Paralegal and hated every second of it. So I am now a stay at home mom, I have been designing wedding invitations, party favors etc. for a local stationary store on the side and somehow became a wedding planner for 2 of my very close friends ....and now addicted to Posh!!!!! Love fashion, shoes purses love it all and LOVE Tiffany & Co. Guess that's about it. Glad to meet everyone and thanks to all sorry I didn't tag everyone. :-) :-) :-) :-)
katz2
@staceydemo Glad this helps!ππ
wer4cats
@katz2 Great post! It's annoying when you share or like something and someone asks if you are interested. If you were interested, you would ask questions, negotiate, or press "buy".
katz2
@wer4cats Jeni, I usually respond "window shopping." lol π
katz2
@hamptongal Hm, no idea why that would be. Wouldn't worry about it, just keep being your wonderful self.ππ
aprils2ndcloset
@kminniear
luvmyqh6
@katz2 Thank you for all the great tips! They are greatly appreciated! β€π΄
dressyu
@katz2 @katef I agree. Thank you both for keeping me going during dark moments. I appreciate you shares and the way you support all Poshers that choose to be supported. Thank you!
katz2
@luvmyqh6 You're welcomeπ
jojobab3
Hi! I had a question and thought you might be a great source. I know it's not posh etiquette to ask if someone is interested because they liked your item, so it is against posh rules to thank people for liking the item? Is that considered the same thing? I'm still trying to familiarize myself with posh rules and behavior, I'd appreciate your two cents! Thank you!
katz2
@jojobab3 Hi Jhoanna, when in doubt, check Posh Etiquette. As a personal preference, I would say no, and consider it the same as asking if they are interested. However, if you are offering a deal, for example they liked several items and you offer a bundle price, I would do it.π
1shoppingmomma
I have a question...I ask for more pics sometimes because one, I can tell how long the necklace is, two, there isn't a pic of the inside of a bag..usually I keep into likes because not ready to buy or don't want to buy because the said necklace is too short..so is that being rude? Because I am guilty of asking for more picsππ
1shoppingmomma
Oh but I always say thank you
katz2
@1shoppingmomma Jennifer, if you ask for more pics and then decide you don't like or are not interested in the item, thank them and leave a polite comment so they know you are no longer interested.π
1shoppingmomma
Thanks..I don't want to offend anyone or be rude..thanks for clearing it upπππ
katz2
@1shoppingmomma That's good, but also let them know that you are no longer interested.π
katz2
@1shoppingmomma ππ
sehalscloset
Hi! It's been a while since I've asked how you been doing? I sometimes come by & reread your helpful tips :) Hope you're enjoying Chi-City with your grand kids π
katz2
@sayz_sehal Hi Sehal! Glad you stopped by! Doing well, how about you? We're busy now that summer is here, plus the grandkids. Have a beautiful Sunday!πππ
shopcaitscloset
What do you think about people who comment "trade" on an item after other people have already asked on the same feed and I have already responded that I do not trade? Is it rude to not comment back?
lakeforest
When I'm listing an item, I try to be as descriptive as possible. To save a lot of time & energy, and to avoid being asked so many questions about your item, try to give all the measurements especially for handbag dimensions ( including the handle/strap drop), heel height on shoes, length of necklaces & bracelets including extender lengths, all pertinent garment measurements, etc. These are the kind of questions that I see get asked so often. Also use Apps ( I like framatic ) that allows you to upload extra pics like the inside of a bag showing the lining, interior zip back pockets, With LV's, Gucci, Fendi, etc. people will ask for pics of the date codes, holograms, logos showing authenticity. These are my personal pet peeves and if anyone wants to add anything else I forgot lmk :). ππ
katz2
@lakeforest Good info! Thanks!πππ
katz2
@shopcaitscloset Sorry for the late reply. Have been busy with visiting grandkids. People don't always read the entire listing or the info at the top of your closet. They may have seen the item at a party or in their feed and commented directly in the listing without visiting your closet. A short polite reply will do. Such as "Sorry, I do not trade" and let it go at that.π
shopcaitscloset
Thank you so much for the advice:) I want to make sure I'm following the rules, but also being kind to people. As a new member of PM it's really nice to have people like you willing to help out!
lakeforest
@katz2 aww.. You know I come to your page sometimes to re-read your really great tips! I learn new things everyday on PoshππHave a great weekend Clara!πΈπ¦
katz2
@shopcaitscloset πππ
katz2
@lakeforest Your input is always appreciated! Something we take for granted may mean the difference in a sale for a new Posher! So thanks again!πππ
lakeforest
@katz2 yesπ I really agree with you and as I learn more tips from you & all the fine gals here to pass on to those newer than me does make a difference in one's ability to sell. It's a reflection of this wonderful App & the powers that be here to allow us a platform on which to be creative & market ourselves. Everybody can play as long as we follow the rules & guidelinesππHave a great Sunday!
katz2
@hamptongal Didn't see it. My feed is crazy!
aprils2ndcloset
@sorena π
andreanna25
Hi @katz2! How do you deal with someone asking "lowest"? I think it's so rude! I've already set my price lower than retail and so I don't want to lower it even more without any guarantee of a sale! But on the other hand, I would like to move my items!
katz2
@andreanna25 That's a tough question. I usually ask them to make an offer. That way I can counter offer and see if they are interested. Negotiate with them, but they should make the offer to you first. I also recommend you set up a separate negotiation listing. The give-and-take doesn't occur in the listing for all to see. If the price you list is what you want, add that to the listing as in Price is Firm. Hope this helps.π
andreanna25
Thank you @katz2, that's very helpful advice! I'm very frustrated because she's STILL asking me lowest without making an offer, even after I asked if she had a suggestion in mind. Thanks so much for your wisdom!
katz2
@andreanna25 Oh, that's a tough one. You could still lose the sale even if you lower your price. I'd leave it up to her to give you a price. Before I agree to a lower price, I always ask if they are ready to buy now, then I will agree and change the price for them to buy. Good luck!π
laciblane
@katz2 Glad I read this! I thought we were supposed to ask people if they were interested since I seen everyone doing it! hahaha!
katz2
@laciblane πππ
katz2
@sydneyconstance Sydney, usually when you negotiate a price with a buyer, the price is for that person not anyone else. If you were to just lower the price for all to buy, that's ok. Nut, if you were in negotiations with a buyer, it was rude for someone else to buy it out from under them. Usually I ask if the buyer is ready, then when they say yes, I change the price and put their user name in the description. I, personally, would cancel the sale and tell the buyer it was reserved for someone else. But, that's your call.
sydneyconstance
@katz2 Thank you so much! I'm trying to learn everything and want to do things the right way. π
katz2
@sydneyconstance Just put yourself in the buyer's shoes. If you really wanted the item and asked the seller to lower the price for you and they did, you would be really upset if someone else bought it for the price you agreed to. π
sydneyconstance
@katz2 Absolutely! It moves so fast. I didn't know what was happening.
katz2
@sydneyconstance So cancel the sale and let Posh and the buyer know that the price was for someone you were negotiating with. Never change the price until they are ready to buy that instance. You can always edit the listing and mark it Not For Sale if you are sure the buyer will purchase with 24 hours. Some people negotiate a price and disappear. You never hear from them again. π
sydneyconstance
@katz2 thank you!!! You've been so helpful. I REALLY appreciate it! Xx
katz2
@sydneyconstance You're most welcomeπ
mrfike
Thank you for all these wonderful tips! Most of the posh peeps I've met have been fantastic, but a few have pestered me about "likes". I wish EVERYONE on poshmark read and lived by these great tips! Thanks again!
katz2
@mrfike Thanksπππ
tigger75
Hi Clara! My name is Kerri! I love your closet and all the great tips that you have posted! Would you mind if I post your list from above? Its a really good list! πππ If not I totally understand! Just let me know! πππ Thank you Clara!
katz2
@tigger75 Hi Kerri, yes you may use my listing. I only ask that you state it is with permission from my closet. Thank you.π
tigger75
I will def mention what you asked in my post! Thank you so much!
katz2
You're welcomeπ
ssvalentine
@katz2 Hi Sweet Lady!! Getting ready to hit the sack myself. I so hope u enjoyed ur vacation. Missed you! I'll get back to u tomorrow. ππ. Love, Sharon
lilmistam
@katielovesyou7
lakeforest
@mrsroppo Sarah, here's more stuff to readπ
lilmistam
@romerocecelia βΊ
marceirby
Amen
katz2
@dazzlindeals Last one, but you can check the rest of my closet for more if you want.π
sweet_hatttrick
@kelly545 Amen!!!
katz2
@501bjl Hi Bonnie, it's way late for me, but, if you read through the FAQS and the Guide to Poshmark and have questions, I'd be happy to help tomorrow. Time for me to get to bed.ππ
katz2
@501bjl Hi Bonnie, I'm home and awake π So if you have those questions ready, ask away.
katz2
@501bjl Yum, sounds great! π
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Tomorrow afternoon is fine.
vincebug
Great tips!! I'm already experiencing something on this list. A few, very well established sellers have asked if I'm interested just because I liked. Maybe I should refer them here...
katz2
@vincebug Glad this hellos. lol To each their own when it comes to selling, but, most gals do not appreciate the "interested" jargon.π¬
rmarlar333
@mahogany_closet
mahogany_closet
ππππ Thanks @rmarlar333
debbie043059
@coolgirljess Helpful tips!
laminnmay
Clara, You are very creative! All your tips are very grateful to new poshers. I like allI had an experience of asking negotiated price and disappeared. Can I use for my closet.
laminnmay
Clara, you are very creative and motivated. All your tips are very useful and grateful for new and old poshers. Can I use this post for my closet?πI had an experience of negotiation and then, she disappeared. I have an question about private offer. After buyer makes private offer, if she come to my closet for negotiations in public again, should I answer the price in public.
katz2
@laminnmay La, you may use this as long as you state that you're using it with permission from me.π
katz2
@laminnmay La, you could always ask her to use the Make an Offer Button if you prefer to keep the negotiations private. Most of us prefer that they negotiate in private.π
laminnmay
Clara, Really appreciate your permission and answer. You're very kind.ππ
katz2
@laminnmay you're most welcomeπ
jcarmellaa
Thank you for the shares and taking time to check out my closet! You have wonderful posts on here βΊοΈ
katz2
@jcarmellaa You're welcome Jessicaπ
debbie043059
@princess_saucer
sunijoji
@katz2 thx for the tips! I'm fairly new to PM. Enjoying so farπ
katz2
@sunijoji You're welcomeπ
footcandy
@katz2 - Hi Clara! How do you handle mass tags from you PFFs (ie follow games, new user alerts, party alerts, etc)? While I want to be on the list, the sheer amount of people in the tag is taking up the entire screen on my mobile device. And they come back to back for about 15-30 minutes straight. The issue is that it's causing me to miss offers, scroll through and search for shares, comments, etc. I totally want to be on the list, but wish she would break up the posts so that it didn't flood my account. Any suggestions?
katz2
@footcandy Ebony, I hear you loud and clear! π± Mass tags kill everyone's device! Unfortunately, I have had to ask them to remove me from their lists. I am hoping to only be on one or two. My suggestion would be to select which notifications you want and then ask the others to remove you from their tags. I hope this helps!π
footcandy
Thanks Clara!! Hopefully in the future posh limits the number you can tag...
katz2
@footcandy πππ
janyg24
Well said! πππ
katz2
@janyg24 πππ
katz2
@eringargano Erin, not sure what you mean by a collage? To share other's items, do the same when you share your items. Click on the share button and share to your followers. And yes, you can only share one item at a time. If you have time, check out @official_forum for helpful tips, hints and information on a variety of topics.
ulivjulie69
Thank u so very much! you are the very first person that has reached out to me and that wsd so sweet! That tells me what type of person you are. I have a bunch of listings had a couple offers, but have yet to make a sale. Again thanks so much!
katz2
@ulivjulie69 Julie. Keep sharing your items as well as others. The right buyer will come along! ππ
cody7150
@megan_estep π
loveda_pourvous
Thank you for the shares! It means so much to a new Posher! All these tips are fantastic!
katz2
@loveda1 You're welcomeπΈ
carissam22
Thanks for these tips!
katz2
@carissam22 You're welcomeπΉ
bria2004
Thank you so much!
katz2
@bria2004 You're welcomeπ
aprils2ndcloset
@laurierleskanic βοΈ
emboodie
Amen! But these shouldn't be rules it's just common sense lol
alyssahourglass
@katz2 ~ AMEN!!!! One Of The Best Posh Posts!!! I love this so, so, so much!!! I also don't like it as a buyer, when I make an offer in the comments, and the seller doesn't respond, when I see them respond to other buyers' offers in their closet, just say no! I'm okay with no, or something! I hate to be ignored, especially since I only want 10% off to during reduced shipping days! (& I would do that as a seller too, just saying, I'd never ask for something I wouldn't do myself).
alyssahourglass
@katz2 ~ I'm so happy I found my way to you & your posts, everyone on Posh, buying or selling, should follow you! XOXO
katz2
@alyssahourglass Alyssa, glad you like the listing. It can be frustrating when your comments aren't answered, but let me give you a little background. At one of the PoshFests, one of the big issues was to keep negotiations private. The biggest issue was the seller reducing the price of the item, or agreeing to a lower price in the comments and then, the buyer disappears. Now the low price is available for all to see. The seller has lost the power to negotiate.
katz2
@alyssahourglass part 2 Posh saw the need for privacy so they implemented the Offer button. Once the offer is made, it is a private negotiation between buyer/seller. Now, sometimes, when there is a shipping reduction, conversation in the comments can state that "if you accept my offer, please reduce the price of the listing so I may get the special shipping." Or something on that order. It's not that the are ignoring you, they may want you to make an offer to negotiate privately.
alyssahourglass
@katz2 ~ I feel you on that part of the issue. My only problem (as a Posh buyer for 4 months) is that I will only try to ask for a discount during special shipping & I do not like the offer button, bc even if the buyer agrees, I would not get the 99 or $1.99, so that is my issue, as a buyer,and even though I am selling now, I feel the same. I do see your point as well....
alyssahourglass
I may offer up a certain email address only for offers, and prelude my post with set criteria: No low-balling, offers only considered true offers of up to & including 20% off. Also, offers only good for X amount of time, and no holds ever. Mainly, because I want to be buyer friendly while making money, we'll see how it works out. (TYVM for your help!)
katz2
@alyssahourglass part 3 So, you could always comment that you are making an offer, but could they change the listing because you are ready to buy with the reduced shipping. Hope this helps!ππ
alyssahourglass
@katz2 ~ Yes, that is the best way, and very clear :) Thanks again, you are a huge help! XOXO
katz2
@alyssahourglass You're welcome!ππ
katz2
@alyssahourglass Just a FYI, there have been scammers on Posh. π¬ So, it's best to never give out an email address. Keep all communication within the app.
alyssahourglass
@katz2 ~ I've heard of trader-scammers, but not with email. What can they do,like spam or a virus? (I guess better safe than sorry applies).
katz2
@alyssahourglass Yep, better to be safe than sorry!π
tlovehawaii
Do you mind if I copy and paste this? It's lovely ;)
katz2
@tlovehawaii You can copy it as long as you list where you copied it from my closet. Need to follow Posh rules about copyright. π
tlovehawaii
And thank you for the shares ;)
katz2
@tlovehawaii ππ
kimdavis1221
Love it! =)
katz2
@kimdavis1221 ππ
arigrldesigns
@katz2 Hi, Clara, Hey got a Q for you... Have you heard of a PM group called "Get it Sold"?? Just wondering? Thank you!.
katz2
@pmgr22 No, I have not heard of them. Is it a Facebook group? There are lots of them.
arigrldesigns
@katz2 Ok, Thanks Clara! :)
katz2
@pmgr22 you're welcomeππ
shopbkstone
Thank you for the shares! It's very much appreciated.
katz2
@bktreasures You're welcomeπΈ
xleener1
I hope I don't sound dumb but how do you add no trade, gone for awhile and no low balling in cute pics to my closet if you could lead me in right direction would do appreciate it, thank you, Eileen
katz2
@xleener1 Eilee, we use apps for the iPhone or iPad. I will tag you in some listings that may help explain it.πΈ
xleener1
Thank you so much
katz2
@xleener1 You're welcomeππΈ
lavish_7
@katz2 thank you for posting these great tips. How do sellers offer discounted shipping?
katz2
@elleteigh Elle, Posh usually offers discounted shipping when the seller reduces the price by at least 10% lower than the historical lowest price. If the seller offers free shipping, the seller reduces the item price but $5 to make up for the $4.99 Posh shipping charge.
katz2
@tisriankh Of course, you may copy it.ππ
katz2
@tisriankh You're welcomeπππ
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