PLEASE AND THANK YOU GO A LONG WAY

Name: PLEASE AND THANK YOU GO A LONG WAY
Brand: WHERE ARE YOUR MANNERS PEOPLE?
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WHERE ARE YOUR MANNERS PEOPLE?

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When you ask for any type of information, say "please" and "thank you". Even if you realize an item is not going to work out for you. It is common courtesy and simply polite. Manners will get you much farther and will result in a better experience. This includes accepting a delivery in a timely manner if there are no problems. It's rude to make a seller wait for her funds when you may already be wearing her clothes. And if you don't get the answer that you want to hear, please still be nice!

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169 Comments

scootersbabe Love this !! Also "kindness is the new black"

Mar 16Reply

rebekah_allen Amen!

Mar 17Reply

alpt81 Agreed! I think I'm going to start ignoring rude people on here. But then again, I'd probably feel bad for having bad manners😊!

Mar 17Reply

megger @alpt81 Haha, exactly!

Mar 17Reply

ruby2nb Exactly this!

Mar 17Reply

tribalsister Yes!!!👍

Mar 18Reply

vinny30 @megger I just posted about items on hold as well.. Same thing..That's all we are asking.. No one charges you here for saying at least Thank you!!

Mar 18Reply

megger @tribalsister 😉

Mar 18Reply

megger @vinny30 Couldn't agree more!

Mar 18Reply

methodclothe I'm getting this a lot lately. Hoping I'm not guilty of this. 😕

Mar 19Reply

megger @methodclothe Heck no, you're sweet as pie!

Mar 19Reply

shopaholic59 @megger @methodclothe Couldn't have said it better. Also if you ask someone for their best price please respond either way and don't expect a 50% discount

Mar 19Reply

megger @shopaholic59 Exactly!

Mar 19Reply

methodclothe Oh good! I actually just added this to my "shop methodclothe" listing the other day before I saw yours. So yeah it's definitely happening a lot!

Mar 19Reply

epicstorm @megger - hi darling! I hope that you are having a great day. I have a quick question regarding that wonderful perfume scent that you wear. What is it and what is it called?

Mar 19Reply

megger @epicstorm You are so funny! Did your clothes smell like my perfume?!? I swear everything was dry cleaned. Ugh! Well, I use Tide and Downy April Fresh. I''ve been asked before, so crazy. For perfume, I wear Angel or Dolce & Gabbana in the red velvet box. 😉 I also recommend Kiehl's musk.

Mar 19Reply

epicstorm LOL @megger - all of my items that I purchased from you smelled divine. My hubby was washing my new clothes and commented on how goooooood it smelled. Heeheehee Thank you for the info.

Mar 19Reply

blondefarmwife So Agreed!!! Love this and adore you❤️!!! Mean stay away❌

Mar 19Reply

megger @epicstorm My best friend tells me this bc we trade out clothes all of the time. Her kids say "this smells like Aunty Meg". Very funny. I hope it wasn't annoying. 😁

Mar 19Reply

megger @tevavold Love you friend! 😘

Mar 19Reply

epicstorm @megger - not at all. Smelled divine!

Mar 19Reply

megger @epicstorm Ok, good!

Mar 19Reply

simplyxtrendy I agree with this- very well said! Even after you take pics and addtl measurement for them.. 😒🙅

Mar 20Reply

tessla13 There are some rude ass people!! If you don't like someone's offer just say no thank you

Mar 20Reply

megger @hanjiun That's what makes me the most upset! I'm so tired of it!

Mar 20Reply

megger @tessla13 Exactly!

Mar 20Reply

nettieward @megger well said👍

Mar 20Reply

megger @nettieward Thanks! 😊

Mar 20Reply

megger @agnesrose 👍

Mar 21Reply

chiccricket @megger Beautiful closet! 😊

Mar 23Reply

megger @christaadkins Thank you so much! 😊

Mar 23Reply

bxirishdeb You're so right!!!!

Mar 23Reply

megger @bxirishdeb 👍

Mar 23Reply

megger @jennemcgowan Thank you so much, appreciate it! 😊

Mar 27Reply

sarahposhposh I simply cannot express my gratitude enough!!! I mean really- u cannot know how perfect the 'extra' gift was!!! My husband and myself have Saints seasons tickets- I can wear that to the games!!! It's too perfect!!!! I already thought I was getting a great deal- u really did not have to do that!!! I kinda feel bad about my 'free gift' I sent u- mine seems a little silly now!!! I will be shopping your closet soon!! And thank u a million!! Oh- and I ❤️❤️❤️ everything else too!!!!

Mar 29Reply

megger @gauthreaux105 Yay, I'm so glad! You are very welcome. Based on your other purchases, I thought you would love it! Happy I was right. Enjoy everything and have a wonderful rest of the weekend! 😊

Mar 30Reply

notoriousvog @megger I totally agree! By the way, I'm terrified to discover that we wear the same size shoes! 😁

Apr 11Reply

megger @notoriousvog Nice! 👍

Apr 11Reply

sarfairy @megger would you consider a bundle/partial trade deal for the Hida Tunic and the Roe Habitat top by Anna Sui? I love them both (and your whole closet, actually) and was thinking maybe we could work out a deal. I could send you the orange skirt or something else and pay for a bundle discount minus the cost of the item(s) from my closet? Let me know if you would be open to that! Thanks!!!

May 25Reply

stephanieshih Oh my goodness the Zara items that you are sharing right now are bringing new life into my feed 🙏 Great finds!!

May 26Reply

megger @stephanieshih Good stuff huh?

May 26Reply

classy_sassy Love this! May I use this idea? :)

Jun 07Reply

megger @classy_sassy Of course! It needs to be spread around! 👍

Jun 07Reply

classy_sassy @megger great! Thank you very much! I love your closet by the way 👍😍

Jun 07Reply

megger @classy_sassy You're so welcome. Love yours too, your photos are fabulous!

Jun 07Reply

classy_sassy @megger awe! Thank you 😊 I have way too much fun styling the outfits and taking pictures.

Jun 07Reply

rachmoon Yes! And please don't call my hun!! Ugh 😒

Jun 15Reply

megger @rachmoon The worst! 😛

Jun 15Reply

cmarshall38 @megger soooo true!! The worst is waiting for funds to clear!

Jun 25Reply

megger @cmarshall38 You've got that right! Check out my listing on my FP top. I was floored.

Jun 25Reply

cmarshall38 @megger please tag me. I don't see it.

Jun 25Reply

rene_annesmith Oh my gosh...now I know why you posted this! If you ask "lowest?" And I respond with my lowest please respond either way! I am always up for negotiating but please be kind in return!

Jun 25Reply

megger @renea99 It has gotten so bad on here, it's ridiculous! Not too difficult to be kind.

Jun 25Reply

mmr22878 @megger amen!

Jul 04Reply

megger @mmr22878 👍

Jul 04Reply

saphyer True that!! 😁

Aug 03Reply

megger @saphyer 👍

Aug 03Reply

katbmoore This is so true! What I hate the most is whn you already have an item marked down dirt cheap and they have the nerve to come at you with some low ball offer and thn whn you try to wrk with thm, they don't even have the decency to respond to say yay or nay! Or whn someone has you setup a bundle thn changes their mind on which items they want and after you have set it up 3 different ways for thm they disappear! lol

Aug 10Reply

katbmoore Thnx for letting me vent. Lol😊😊

Aug 10Reply

megger @kbelanger I could not agree with you more. I've experienced a lot of rudeness lately too. What I hate the most is when someone doesn't accept and then gets pissed and put off because you ask. Like we have any idea they are out of town! That was the latest one. And then she had the audacity to give me a one star rating and said I was pushy! Thanks for letting ME vent, ha!

Aug 10Reply

katbmoore Yes, so true! It's really sad tht people are the way tht they are. I had a lady post on one of my listings " more pics!" That's it! "More pics!" Lol. She had asked me for add'l pics before and whn I posted thm, not even so much as a thank you! The second time, I just ignored her. You get to know who they are after a while, and they never purchase. It's almost like they like making you run around doing all of these things while they're sitting there laughing at you. And others come in and put a comment tht they could get an item cheaper somewhere else! I feel like saying" then shop there and get out of my closet!", but I don't bc I won't go down to their level. It's pretty sad and almost makes you want to go in there closets and post some negative things, but we don't bc we are ladies and real ladies have manners😊 I am happy to say tht I have had some really wonderful experiences, though, so I guess tht does make all of the bad worth it. I have met some really sweet girls on pm and I will go above and beyond to make my customers happy, but yes, pls, be nice. Kindness will get you further in life thn rudeness! 😊 lol again, thanks for letting me vent. 😊have a good evening.

Aug 10Reply

fifig23 Yes, Yes, Yes!!

Sep 11Reply

ahmanduuh So true hahaha 😂😱😁

Oct 06Reply

megger @ahmanduuh 👍

Oct 06Reply

lisasaia13 This is so true! The sad part is I'm getting used to it and sometimes I think I'm being too sensitive when people ask a question and I respond and then they turn into a ghost. Like u said, even if they realize it's not going to work, and "thanks, I'll pass" is better than nothing! I always respond, even if it is to that annoying "interested Hun"? question lol 😜 ps- love ur closet!

Oct 14Reply

epicstorm It seems the new thing now is LOW BALL offers in the "offer" tab. I listed a NWT pair of pumps for $99 (currently $250 online) and someone submitted $60. WTF???? And how about one word posts? Example: size?, measurements?, lowest? What the hell happened to hello & then the question? Just venting @megger 😜

Oct 28Reply

megger @epicstorm I know, it's ridiculous! I'm getting half of my prices offered to me. Over the weekend a girl said "can you model?". No please or thank you. Therefore I ignored. Not going to put up with it anymore. WTF is right! You can vent to me anytime! 😘

Oct 28Reply

megger @lisasaia13 Thank you so much! I realized that I never responded to you. Speaking of rude, ha! My apologies. It's getting really bad on here. I just try to stay positive and either teach them a lesson or laugh it off. Who taught these people manners?!?

Oct 28Reply

epicstorm Yeah, I don't model anything (I even have a listing that states that I retired from it lol). And this bull about low offers has been happening to mean too. I've been offered half price or lower. It has taught me not to buy so freely believing that I can sell after one or two wears. I donate to charity but didn't realize I had to also donate to Posh LMAO. Our prices are so freaking fair! Thx for letting me vent @megger

Oct 28Reply

megger @epicstorm I am seriously considering consignment again. Less money, but less time and hassle for sure. Like my mother has always told me "People are a-holes Meg!". God love her! What really irritates me is when you list measurements, extra photos, whatever and they disappear. It is so freaking rude! Thanks for letting ME vent!

Oct 28Reply

epicstorm Darling your mom was right! Lol.

Oct 28Reply

lisasaia13 Oh it's totally fine! U have a lot of messages to respond to! 😊

Oct 28Reply

mrsalliexo 👍👏👍👏👍👏

Jan 03Reply

mjb7 @megger OMG yes indeed! Thanks for bringing this up😍😆🎉🎊👏 have you experienced this? - someone will like listings and unlike as soon as they did? It's like doing it to have attention on their listings. I had to call that person out today "in a very well mannered" approach ha ha! 🙌

Jan 03Reply

megger @mjb7 Yep, it's ridiculous. I actually have one girl, who looks really young (her original closet had an actual photo of herself), that constantly harasses me. She opens up new closets and asks me all sorts of questions or asks me to price massive bundles. She is cray cray! Her most recent name is cryinrain I believe. She's done it to some of my other Posh buddies as well. Definitely has a screw loose. The good outweigh the bad though.

Jan 03Reply

mjb7 @megger Wow LOL what do they get out of it? Jeez😬

Jan 03Reply

megger @mjb7 I have absolutely no idea!

Jan 03Reply

daughter14 @megger Well said😊I couldn't agree more😊Happy New Year

Jan 03Reply

megger @daughter14 Thank you! HNY to you too!

Jan 03Reply

daughter14 @megger 💜💕😊

Jan 03Reply

kitty404 💜

Jan 30Reply

megger @kitty404 👍😊

Jan 30Reply

swtla313 Well said and AMEN!!!👍

Feb 14Reply

megger @swtla313 Thanks! 👍

Feb 14Reply

txilbrin I love the usual comments that say: "Trade" Not even a question mark, just that... It is so annoying that I don't even answer anymore...

Feb 15Reply

megger @txilbrin Seriously! I cannot believe the ridiculously low ball offers lately. Not a flea market! I'm really discouraged by people asking for info or pics and then crickets. No please or thank you. Drives me insane and makes me not want to do it anymore.

Feb 15Reply

txilbrin I know , i have realllly good priced items, like Adidas used once for 27, which is like suuuper low, and I receive offers for 12... The worst is I always make sensible offers but that doesn't happen to me 😓😅

Feb 15Reply

megger @txilbrin I feel your pain sister! I'm going to start ignoring.

Feb 15Reply

megger @sueann233 Absolutely! Borderline rude is an understatement. I really don't know what is wrong with people.

Feb 28Reply

megger @chrisstyyy Ha, thanks!

Mar 20Reply

fccandles @megger can I get an 'AMEN' sister !!!!!

Mar 21Reply

megger @fccandles Seriously! 👍

Mar 21Reply

oddalchemist Thank you soooooo much for all the shares!! I love the eccentric mix that you have😍

Apr 09Reply

megger @oddalchemist Thank you so much and you're very welcome! 😊

Apr 10Reply

julie48 I couldn't agree more!!

May 18Reply

megger @julie48 👍🏻

May 18Reply

megqua14 @megger wow, this happens to me on a daily basis!!! Would it be "rude" of me to tag and direct rude people to this page??😛

May 29Reply

megger @megqua14 Haha, no! I think it would be awesome. Feel free!

May 29Reply

megqua14 @megger k, thnx!😄

May 29Reply

megqua14 @conk12w

Jun 20Reply

trichel @megger Hey lady! My tunic came today and I'm obsessed! 😍 It fit perfectly and had room too! Thanks so much! Glad I bought it.

Jul 30Reply

megger @trichel Ah, excellent. So glad it worked for you!

Jul 30Reply

signedblake I HATE when ppl ask "Lowest?" 1) That's what the offer button is for & 2) that's not how negotiations work! (Maybe it's the lawyer in me). It's rude! And it's really inconsiderate when ppl take forever to accept a package. If I made sure to ship your item out the day after you ordered (sometimes the same day), I don't think it's too much to ask for a timely acceptance. It's amazing how rude ppl can be on here sometimes. But I love when I come across great Poshers! Thanks for being awesome!

Aug 16Reply

megger @blakevond Ha, I know! Drives me crazy too. I just ignore it now because I don't have the time. It is baffling that people can be so rude. My mom brought me up correctly and not a week goes by that I don't think of it and thank God that she did. Thank you, the feeling is mutual! 😊

Aug 16Reply

kjseide Thanks for all the shares!! 😘😘

Sep 26Reply

caramia10012 🙌🏻

Oct 08Reply

megger @caramia10012 👍🏻

Oct 08Reply

caramia10012 @megger I'm glad you posted this! I've been seeing some not so nice people here lately as well!

Oct 08Reply

helloimfabulous Well said!

Dec 30Reply

megger @helloimfabulous Thank you! 👍🏻

Dec 30Reply

cherish_vintage Great post. I've sold a couple of items since I just joined posh and all but one person is yet to accept her order. She's clearly active as I can see on her about page and I guess I have to wait till Sunday or Monday for posh to release my funds when the item was delivered on Thursday. I moved quickly to ship all my sold items promptly and for my money to be locked away for a couple of days is frustrating.

Jan 02Reply

megger @lifeobsessions It is my biggest pet peeve! I don't understand it. Have you asked her to accept? You definitely should if the item delivered Thursday. Sometimes people honestly forget, so a polite reminder is totally fine. Welcome to Posh! Let me know if you have any questions, I'd be happy to help you. Have a great Saturday, thanks for stopping by!

Jan 02Reply

cherish_vintage Thanks for responding. I did remind her in a not pushy way yesterday morning by simply writing under one of her listings, "Happy new year,I hope you've received your sweater and all is well". Just thought that should be enough but I just checked again and she was last active one hour ago😕. So she would have seen it but I'll just cross my fingers and wait for posh to release my funds because I'm confident all my items are in great shape when I send them out. Thanks again.

Jan 02Reply

megger @lifeobsessions Wow, that's crazy. However, it has happened to me before too. I usually end up blocking those people bc it's just not worth the worry. 😉 You'll get your funds bc you would have already been notified if she requested a return. Good luck, it was nice talking to you . And HNY!

Jan 02Reply

carina_von Hey, so I really love this --- would you mind if I copied this post and of course credited you? 😉😊

Jan 11Reply

megger @carina_von Of course not, go for it! 👍🏻

Jan 11Reply

carina_von Thank you! 😍🙌🏼

Jan 12Reply

megger @carina_von 👍🏻😀

Jan 12Reply

megger @eileennk @calimom @joannegl @epicstorm @lucinha @uhleesh Ladies, block rachelbritney asap. She received a FP top from me 2 days ago and won't accept. Gave her a free, never worn pair of earrings too. She has been active every time I ask, so I can only assume she's doing it out of spite. Please share!

Jan 15Reply

epicstorm 👆 @sburns1223 @trudivany @kookc @melodicmistress @fifig23 @matadora1978 @augustpinkstyle @mizfabulousity @kaysalas

Jan 15Reply

epicstorm 🚷 Her a$$‼️

Jan 15Reply

joannegl Amen!!!!!

Jan 15Reply

joannegl Ggggrrrrrr why are people such jerks???? Blocked her. Thnxx for heads up

Jan 15Reply

megger @joannegl You bet love. I know, such a twit!

Jan 15Reply

kaysalas AMEN TO THAT!!!!

Jan 15Reply

megger @joannegl Super annoyed! Even gave her a really cute pair of hot pink studs. Still no acceptance. So childish.

Jan 15Reply

megger @joannegl She was last active this hour too. 😡

Jan 15Reply

joannegl That's infuriating!!!!!!! Honestly what is wrong with her??????? I don't understand why she's being THE BIGGEST JERK!!!!

Jan 15Reply

megger @joannegl She just accepted and gave me 5 stars. I seriously don't understand people sometimes.

Jan 15Reply

joannegl @megger whaaaaattttttt! !!!????? So strange I'm baffled. Well at least she gave u 5 stars -avoiding her like the plague

Jan 16Reply

ylimel I agree with this! It seems like there is so much to watch out for here. I had one girl like a couple of my things. Then she came back and said "still waiting on my likes.." I didn't know we had to like back? When I 'liked' back she automatically asked if I was interested about 4-5 times. I finally said no. Her closet was younger than I am & not my size. It's my understanding, to like an item if you actually like it &are interested? I shared a few items to be helpful, I liked BC she nagged me.

Jan 24Reply

ylimel Seems to be a bit of drama in some places here. Kinda makes me laugh. We are all here for the same reason, right? To clean our closet.. And to find a reasonable offer on the brands we love.

Jan 24Reply

megger @ylimel That is too funny, waiting on my likes. Geesh! Yea, there are some nuts on here. I've had my fair share. HOWEVER, there are a lot of really great women too. You're right, you just have to laugh at the rudeness. It's so ridiculous. Thanks for stopping by, happy Sunday! 😊

Jan 24Reply

lulu71279 @megger Spot on!!!

Jan 28Reply

anewbeginning4u LOVE this!!! Thank you! 👌🏼

Feb 24Reply

epicstorm Good morning my PFF 😘 just saying hello 🤗

Feb 24Reply

megger @jetme That's a bummer, so sorry. You should have received your funds back after 7 days though?

Mar 11Reply

megger @jetme I guess I don't understand bc you (the buyer) can only cancel up to 3 hours after you purchase. Did y'all take it off of Posh?

Mar 11Reply

epicstorm Hey doll, please introduce @simcha6 to your Poshers. He has a beautiful closet!

Mar 19Reply

cheek2roy Love this!!!

May 15Reply

megger @cheek2roy Thank you! 😉

May 15Reply

cheek2roy I hope you don't mind but I had to share! 😘

May 15Reply

megger @cheek2roy Please do! 👍🏻

May 15Reply

virago If only everyone would read this.....

Jun 17Reply

megger @virago Ha, I know, right? 😕

Jun 17Reply

epicstorm Hey doll. Can we trade again? 😭😆😂 Do you remember my Thread Social Purple Gold Dotted Dress? If not, I will email you a picture. Let me know 😘

Jul 17Reply

megger @epicstorm Send me a pic love! I think I vaguely remember? 😬

Jul 17Reply

btully21 I totally agree with this and love this post! I'm new to posh. I've been on here for a little longer than a month. I've gotten the most extreme low ball offers, all the ONE word comments with lowest and measurements and when I respond... NOTHING. It makes me sad that this has been my first impression. But enough negativity at the moment... Shoutout to all the women/men on posh who are extremely helpful and kind! Everyone that I have purchased from has made it all worthwhile! ✌🏻️

Aug 23Reply

megger @btully21 Hi Elizabeth, welcome to Posh! Don't let those people frustrate you. I know it's hard sometimes. I think it comes with the territory unfortunately. There are a lot of great people on here, trust me. I just let them outweigh the bad ones. I try to ignore them too. Let me know if you ever have any questions or need emotional support. 😂 Nice to meet you!

Aug 24Reply

btully21 Nice to meet you too! And you are totally right😃! Thanks for the positivity! 💫 👍🏻✌🏻️

Aug 24Reply

delilahbenson 👏

Sep 07Reply

megger @delilahbenson Thanks! 😉

Sep 08Reply

tinabberry So very true😇

Sep 16Reply

megger @tinabberry 👍🏻

Sep 17Reply

veggiel @deutzcat

Nov 05Reply

megger @deutzcat @veggiel I know, right? Thanks for stopping by! 😊

Nov 05Reply

loveladydre Amen this this!

Jan 11Reply

ball_mom Hey, sweet friend! Just wanted to touch base and make sure you're safe in Texas. I'm not sure how far you are from the devastation. You've been on my mind. 💜💋

Sep 02Reply

queenofhaute AMEN TO THAT!!

Oct 10Reply

megger @queenofhaute Ha, thanks! 😊

Oct 10Reply

asschercat13 @megger 💓💓💓

Apr 15Reply

megger @asschercat13 hey sister, how are you? It has been forever! I hope you are well. ❤️

Apr 15Reply

asschercat13 @megger all is well and I hope the same for you, gorgeous gal! 🌸🌸🌸

Apr 15Reply

megger @asschercat13 Yes ma’am, just working my tail off per usual. Enjoy your Sunday! 😘

Apr 15Reply

asschercat13 @megger you too! Will advise if/when I win powerball!

Apr 15Reply

megger @asschercat13 Haha! Still looking for my sugar daddy! 😂

Apr 15Reply

asschercat13 @megger 😘😉yes!!

Apr 15Reply

meg239_01 Amen! Also people need to realize it’s in poor taste to make a low ball offer. If I’m selling an item for $35 and you offer $10 it’s just rude. If you have an expensive taste you should be able to afford it at an already extremely discounted price! You have a great closet! I loved looking.

Apr 17Reply

megger @mrslion2001 😉

Jul 09Reply