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Share away! No obligation to share more than 3 at a time no matter the amount that someone else shares unless you want.... only real rule is NO SHARING TO PARTY for someone else 😊😊TIP: use your ‘EDIT’ button to share to main feed, not just your followers 👍🏻 ( Edit, Next, List !) ....To be clear.. sharing multiple times to a party WILL push your item to the top of feed, however not add it multiple times 😊

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fccandles @nikoneko @wendyinnola @jimmycat here you are my beautiful fashionistas 💕💕💕 I saw a listing somewhere where she said not to share more then 10 of her items...well I certainly LOVE when someone shares my things so.... share as many as you like 😁❤️

Nov 14Reply

nikoneko @fccandles @wendyinnola @jimmycat Thank you for posting this, K! Yes, I often get “lost” in a dreamy closet and want to show off every gorgeous treasure ✨ This is well said. And kind! You’re a class act ⚡️❤️⚡️

Nov 14Reply

ally_marc @fccandles I agree with you, thank you for this😍

Nov 14Reply

fccandles @nikoneko 🥰🥰🥰

Nov 14Reply

fccandles @ally_marc you’re most welcome my beautiful friend 😍

Nov 14Reply

nikoneko @harkcollection Hi! I thought you might be interested in Kim’s post - it helps clarify why Poshers don’t share other’s items to parties. I only learned this a few weeks ago, when a Posher took me to task for sharing her items to a party 😖 I’m glad Kim wrote this up 🙏🏼😘

Nov 16Reply

harkcollection @nikoneko thank you for this - I had no idea🙃 - hope you are well😘

Nov 16Reply

nikoneko @harkcollection I had no idea, either! I love sharing, so it was good for me to learn this. I hope you are well, too ❤️😘

Nov 16Reply

fccandles @nikoneko @harkcollection thank you ladies 😊 glad to have clarified 👍🏻

Nov 17Reply

rea_pparel I had no idea!😮🤭. I thought sharing is caring and sharing to a party meant more caring😣😳. I’m guilty- of massive overcaring. Consider this my intervention! I will curb my urge to share!! Everything in moderation! I will take note and observe this gentle guide during my obsessive sharing episodes. The struggle is real. 😑🙃❤️ 🤦🏻‍♀️ Thank you for clarifying fccandles, and showing newbies like myself the ropes. It’s a steep learning curve here on Poshmark! Well for me at least!!🤷🏻‍♀️😊

Nov 21Reply

fccandles @reagirl1 my dear friend ❤️❤️ share away 🥰 I’m glad you found the test of the info helpful!! Hope you’re well and your ‘girls trip’ was a blast!!!

Nov 21Reply

rea_pparel @fccandles good morning! I’d like to say I’m revitalized but I found the trip equally fun and exhausting!! 😅. Are you on vacation??

Nov 21Reply

dallascurated I love your closet, so fabulous!

Jan 16Reply

fccandles @amaranta11 ty my friend 💕💕 ditto!

Jan 17Reply

maineholl I love love your closet...I got lost ...I share ❤️ have a great week!

Jan 22Reply

fccandles @maineholl ty my friend! Will return the favor when I can sit for 5 minutes 😆😆

Jan 22Reply

fccandles @itenemarco here’s some helpful info 🥰🥰

Oct 26Reply

fccandles @irenemarco☝🏼

Oct 26Reply

rose975 I had no idea of this, thank you for sharing ! A newbie here really appreciate it, Happy and blessed Holidays 💖💝❤

Nov 26Reply

fccandles @rose975 you’re most welcome! No one ever tells you these things right? 😳 all stuff we’ve learned over the years:-) happy to share ❤️ happy holidays to you!!

Nov 26Reply

rose975 @fccandles no one that's right ! We need a guide for new poshers lol , have a beautiful day 💖

Nov 26Reply

fccandles @rose975 I should put one together 😏

Nov 26Reply

rose975 @fccandles 😁 you're the sweetest 🌹

Nov 26Reply

lapetitebirdie People really get upset if someone shares stuff from their closet? That's crazy to me. When someone shares my stuff it makes me happy that they liked it enough to share with others!

Dec 06Reply

fccandles @mailecabral thank you you so very much for the thoughtfulness 😍

Jan 17Reply

mrsruby322 Oh my goodness I'm so sorry; I just shared some of your listings to a party! You've been so lovely and shared my whole closet and I was trying to be helpful!

Jul 04Reply

fccandles @mrsruby322 it’s ok!!! I appreciate the love❤️

Jul 04Reply

fccandles @ally_marc you mean like this??

Jul 10Reply

ally_marc @fccandles oh gosh, YES, exactly!! but, they say this is wrong

Jul 10Reply

ally_marc @fccandles they both shared now, each 10 items, but still have me blocked 🤷‍♀️

Jul 10Reply

fccandles @ally_marc what do they mean wrong? Sharing once? It ONLY shows once... in a party.. POSH says that. 🙄

Jul 10Reply

fccandles @ally_marc and yes... they still have me blocked as well and continue to share my things. They probably use a bot of some sort

Jul 10Reply

fccandles @ally_marc ok... let me be very clear... YES... it does continue to go into the feed... however, it does not go into the PARTY feed. And the reason you do not share others to a party is because they might not want their things being shared at that particular time. I want my items in the PARTY feed at the END of the party so it’s some of the 1st things people see

Jul 10Reply

ally_marc @fccandles but what’s the logic in that, if I can’t share back? Are they proving something or it’s another way of hurting our closets🤷‍♀️

Jul 10Reply

fccandles @ally_marc when they go back the next day. I don’t want to be down ALL the way to the end. Does that make more sense? And why would so do e who is SUPPOSED to be ‘mentors’ put up a post using the term BUTT HURT?Are they 6? Wow...

Jul 10Reply

ally_marc @fccandles yes, exactly the way I was thinking!!

Jul 10Reply

fccandles @ally_marc you can share back... just share to your followers . OH you mean to them? Who knows. They are crazy! They are mean spirited women who think that they are more important than anyone else because posh asked them a question. Let me tell you why they blocked me,... because I don’t drink the posh Kool aid .. and I very politely told 5hem as much. I too have had my moment w/ posh .. Mannish to be exact .. on several different occasions..

Jul 10Reply

fccandles @ally_marc and she claimed to have been on my private calls! They are crazy! I’ve been exactly where they are and I told them I hoped they got better results then I did... then poof ... blocked. I could care less but then why share my closet? They are just bullies

Jul 10Reply

sugarymom i am happy to share 5 from your closet! blessings for us🙏❤💙

Jul 26Reply

fccandles @sugarymom thank you my friend 🥰👍🏻 much appreciated. Will return the love

Jul 26Reply

fccandles @tracy031770 share away my friend 🥰

Jul 26Reply

haileyfruit just shared 15 of your wonderful items, happy poshing💓💓

Jul 27Reply

aliwah thanks...I'm always trying to figure out how this works...and now, good night!!!💤🙂

Jul 28Reply

sslei happy August, much needed reminder for some folks :).

Aug 03Reply

mahanf @fccandles 🙋🏻‍♀️thanks for this 🤗 I didn't know,I thought I would do something good for my posh Friends when I share 100 times their items to party 🥴🤷🏻‍♀️😂

Aug 05Reply

fccandles @aliwah you’re welcome Alice 🥰

Aug 05Reply

fccandles @mahanf it never hurts to share 🥰...just not to the parties 😬

Aug 05Reply

mahanf @fccandles 👍🏼got it 🙏🏼 ❣️Thanks again and Happy poshing 🍀

Aug 05Reply

aliwah it's taking awhile...but I'm getting it, if only I can remember!

Aug 05Reply

aliwah @rea_pparel ...me too!

Aug 05Reply

1apropos I had no idea about the 'shares to a party' vs sharing to followers. Always learning something new and I appreciate you posting this bit of info. Reprimanded for oversharing'? That doesn't make sense! I appreciate you and your beautiful closet!

Aug 05Reply

sslei shared, have a great week :)

Aug 11Reply

fccandles @ellabella513 this will help as well.. sharing shows you are part of the community 😉😍

Aug 25Reply

fccandles @sslei thank you love .. just seeing this!;

Aug 25Reply

fccandles @1apropos you’re most welcome! Sorry... just seeing this 🥰

Aug 25Reply

teresarullan Kim no more parties ok and sorry. I will love share u closet 12 items ok x you?

Aug 25Reply

fccandles @teresarullan my dear friend... share away!!! Yes... it’s true about the party rule...but I’m not a stickler. Some people however are. I’m happy ANYTIME someone shares so thank you my PFF 😉🥰🥰

Aug 26Reply

funfun_1 Shared 15!! ✨🌸✨

Aug 27Reply

fccandles @funfun_1 thank you Sara 🥰

Aug 27Reply

sweetretreat Shared 10 💐

Sep 01Reply

mamacitas_magic shared 30

Sep 09Reply

shopahola Love this!! ❤️

Sep 14Reply

katcee91 Nicely said 🥰

Sep 19Reply

fccandles @katcee91 thank you🥰

Sep 19Reply

fccandles @shopahola thank you my friend 😊

Sep 19Reply

shopahola @fccandles, 👍❤️

Sep 19Reply

primsnpropers Thanks for this post, I had no idea! 🌻

Sep 20Reply

fccandles @meganhopet hope this helps 😉💕

Oct 30Reply

style_n_u2020 @fccandles Thanks for this post! May I copy & use it on my page? I overshare. I don’t EXPECT/DEMAND anything back. It’s Poshmark etiquette but it’s not REQUIREDI do it to help others. I was raised w/out a sense of entitlement. I believe in a world where servg & helpg others along the way makes life better for us all. I love everyone & pray for my enemies & those that curse me. I pray for peace & healing in the world.😁Thank you for being brave, courageous & amazing & your beautiful closet!!🥳🥰😇

Nov 08Reply

fccandles @style_n_u2020 good morning Kate 🥰 yes you absolutely may use ... I only ask that you give me credit 😍 Happy poshing 😉

Nov 09Reply

ally_marc @fccandles lol, i had s case like this, complained that I didn’t return her 10 shares 😱 I can relate to this, can I use it & post?

Nov 18Reply

laurasuchey Omg! I had no idea! This was so informative and helpful. I didn’t even know there was a way to share to the main feed! I’m still new to this. This might be a super silly question, but now I’m wondering what is the point of a party???

Nov 24Reply

fccandles @laurasuchey 🥰 when you share to a party... it’s a separate ‘feed’ in which you can showcase the items designated to that party ( ie: if it’s brand specific, or themed) and your items will stay there..so if I’m unable to be active during a party...and I’m looking for say CHANEL...and that was the party I can go back to that days parties and window shop ...

Nov 24Reply

laurasuchey @fccandles a thanks so much. I think I get it. Lol You’re so full of great info! —I want to ask another party question. Is there any point to my sharing my own relevant items to a party more than once? Or is once enough. Thanks again!

Nov 24Reply

fccandles @laurasuchey a share only shows up1x in the party feed... no matter how many times. Any subsequent shares go into the reg ( followers) feed 👍🏻

Nov 25Reply

laurasuchey @fccandles oh wow. You’ve just gave some of my life back to me. Lol Thank you so much for all this! It’s made all the difference! 🧡💖🧡💖🧡💖🧡💖💖

Nov 25Reply

fccandles @laurasuchey awe! I’m so happy 🥰🥰 happy poshing my friend 😉

Nov 25Reply

laurasuchey @fccandles 🧡💖💖🧡

Nov 27Reply

angelamu7 @fccandles shared

Dec 03Reply

parisianbazaar I love your closet! And I was just thinking of this too, sharing at a party does not help ;( Can I please copy this picture? Thank you 💕💕💕

Dec 04Reply

fccandles @renatalbc absolutely.. I only ask that you give me credit 👍🏻

Dec 04Reply

angelamu7 shares done

Dec 04Reply

angelamu7 12/5 done

Dec 05Reply

vikrez04 I love this! nicely said! <3

Dec 08Reply

fccandles @vikrez04 thank you :-)

Dec 08Reply

sales24hours Absolutely love this! 💕 I'm glad there are kind sellers that support one another 🤩🎉

Dec 11Reply

fccandles @buga_lili thank you 💋💋💋

Dec 11Reply

bluesea38 @fccandles hello my dear friend, It's been a while since we've talked,😷 my daugther is getting merry and I’m a “ little “ busy my self, wishing you a very safe and blessed holidays🙏🙏

Dec 14Reply

fccandles @bluesea38 she’s getting Merry ( as in tipsy?$ or married? 😃

Dec 14Reply

creeksidesales Great post!!!

Dec 19Reply

fccandles @pfseac thank you 🥰🥰

Dec 19Reply

fccandles @got_style2004 you’re most welcome:-) it can be confusing and you’re right.. they don’t explain it 😜

Feb 05Reply

reowningvintage Amen

Feb 05Reply

astreap Hear! Hear! 🥂

Mar 20Reply

fccandles @astreap 🥰🥰🥰

Mar 21Reply

sarah_marvin Yes!! Well said 👏🏼

Mar 31Reply

ittybittyriddle I didn't know that!!!! Good to know :)

Mar 31Reply

fccandles @sarah_marvin thank you ❤️❤️

Mar 31Reply

fccandles @ittybittyriddle happy to help ❤️

Mar 31Reply

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Apr 01Reply

threadzfinder @fccandles Live and learn. I had zero clue that Party Sharing Etiquette means not sharing a fellow Posher's items during a party. I feel so bad I have been doing that. 😕 Fresh start now. Thanks for enlightening me.

Apr 07Reply

fccandles @threadzfinder ok to share during a party ... just to your followers and not the party 😉👍🏻

Apr 07Reply

threadzfinder @fccandles Got it! And thank you. Now I'm off to be a better Posher! 🎉👠🎀

Apr 07Reply

fccandles @threadzfinder yeah!! A little trick if you’d like to get something back into the feed use the edit button. Edit, next, list 👌🏼

Apr 07Reply

dprincec Thank you for all tour great info... I’m new to poshmark and I find these posts of yours so helpful!! Xx

May 05Reply

fccandles @dprincec you’re most welcome! Welcome to posh . I’m happy to help anytime :-) stay positive, test negative 😍

May 05Reply

fccandles @cheapernfaster Hi Alfonso ... I’m happy to answer any questions. I’ve noticed that you have 0 shares. Returning shares are the keys to sales 👌🏼 while not a requirement.. it’s the way your items get seen 👍🏻unwritten rule of thumb... 1 for every 3 . Good luck !

May 30Reply

benjas0925 Agree🙌🙌🙌❣️❣️❣️

Sep 20Reply

fccandles @benjas0925 thank you 😉… who gets angry at MULTIPLE shares? Sad …

Sep 20Reply

ally_marc @fccandles hello Gorgeous, I hope you’re well and having a wonderful week 🙏🏻💚🍁🛍

Nov 05Reply

wgglrm I swear I've seen the same listing over and over in the same party. How does that happen? I thought it was different people sharing the same item that caused this. But it's not? Thanks for being so generous with information. I knew you were generous already from comments you'd made in my closet! Good on you! 🥰❤️😃🤗✌️

Nov 08Reply

fccandles @wgglrm Hi Melinda:-) yes it’s seems confusing I agree. So… when you share the same item multiple times during a party it WILL push that item back up to the top of the feed.. it doesn’t however show a ‘new’ listing ea time…

Nov 08Reply

fccandles @wgglrm if you are seeing an item multiple times it is most likely being shared over and over again… each time it just pushes that item to the top .. remember however thousands of people are doing the same so it won’t stay at the top for more then a split second… does that make sense?

Nov 08Reply

wgglrm @fccandles Thank You!❤️

Nov 09Reply

byfeym @byfeym :)

Nov 15Reply

fccandles @byfeym thank you 😊

Nov 15Reply

noor908 @fccandles love this! 💕 you truly carry one of the kindest souls. So much love for you, Queen! 😘

Dec 20Reply

fccandles @noor908 💋💋💋

Dec 20Reply

heymisssmelisss @fccandles 🤯 what??? Wish I had known this. For myself and others whose items I shared. Thank you for sharing!

Dec 21Reply

mysaltwatersoul Do people really do this? Just beyond me and I guess they truly do not understand how this works. So sad. Beautiful closet.

Dec 23Reply

fccandles @thevault19 I know…it’s truly sad that women treat each other with such little regard. We need to do a better job of supporting each ❤️

Dec 23Reply

fccandles @melarinna hope this helps 😍

Feb 22Reply

melarinna Thus helps tremendously!! Thank you!! You’re a truly classy posher😍

Feb 22Reply

fccandles @melarinna Awe… thank you! 😍😍🥰

Feb 22Reply

vilyaverdure Thank you for this! I am new to Poshmark and have been wondering about some of the things you addressed in this post. Thanks again, and happy selling! 😊 💜 💜 💜

Mar 01Reply

fccandles @vilyaverdure you’re most welcome! Lmk if I can ever be of assistance 😍

Mar 01Reply