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It doesnโt take much to be kind, if you are upset with someone there is a way to deal with it using kind words, you do not have to be rude to others and especially to those who have never done you one bit of harm. I try to give respect to others and handle situations in a very kind loving way even if I donโt know you. God is watching me and I have a responsibility to be kind and compassionate to others in the world around me. May God bless each one of you and I wish happiness for everyone. ๐๐
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juniec20
yes! ๐ฅ๐๐
lolas_boutique_
@juniec20 thank you for liking this and the comment. ๐๐๐ท
juniec20
@lolas_boutique_ it's ๐ฏ% i can't argue with that! ๐ทyou're welcome๐ป
lolas_boutique_
@juniec20 I had this one customer or two recently that was so just down right nasty mean to me for no reason at all, I tried every way possible to make them happy and they just insisted on being extremely hateful to me. So I thought I would post a little message so that maybe someone down the road that thinks of treating someone with such disrespect might think first. Just maybe. ๐๐๐ท
juniec20
@lolas_boutique_ oh sorry that you had to experience this. behind keyboards, people are more bold to say things because they feel protected. it's a cowardly behavior in my opinion. you do you. walk with grace!! ๐ค๐ธ
lolas_boutique_
@juniec20 exactly! Thank you so much for stopping in tonight. You made me feel better about the situation. Thank you! ๐๐๐ท๐๐ธ๐
juniec20
@lolas_boutique_ well, this brings me joy knowing that i cheered you up. isn't there a saying, "every day may not be good, but there is something good in every day [?]" ๐๐ค this quote lifts me up every time. ๐๐ผ
juniec20
you're welcome. ๐
lolas_boutique_
@juniec20 awh that is a wonderful quote! I love it! ๐ very uplifting. I pray that God will continue to bless you and your family and keep you safe and well. ๐๐๐ท๐๐
emmagraces_fits
i canโt argue with that ๐ its great that you made that clear! Thank you! I just dropped a follow! ๐ค
lolas_boutique_
@emmagraces_fits thank you so much! I shared your closet as a thank you! ๐๐๐ท๐๐
emmagraces_fits
@lolas_boutique_ thank you so much!! ๐ค
gemsrpretty
Amen so so true๐๐ป Beautiful Closet๐๐
uppereastsideem
Check out my closet and like/bundle any items youโre interested in. All bundles of 3 or more items get an automatic 15% discount. Iโm open to offers. Happy Poshing and have a safe and wonderful day!
melinda2931
Yes, I totally agree. God Bless You
lolas_boutique_
@melinda2931 thank you sweet friend! God bless you too. I wish you happiness and good health! ๐๐๐ท๐๐
lolas_boutique_
@gemsrpretty thank you so much! ๐๐๐ท๐๐
ludimcamacho
Thank you for sharing.
laurievjewelry
Exactly! Love this๐
chichong4
Agreed! Tired of people flipping their lid on me in the comments when I decline their low ball offer. Iโm trying to make money over here to support myself! Sorry not sorry! Just be kind
lolas_boutique_
@chichong4 who did that? The lady that lowballed me? Iโm confused,yes Iโm tired of it too. I got two absolutely ridiculous offers last night!
lolas_boutique_
@chichong4 I see who you are talking about, did you see how nasty and rude she was to me? Name calling etc, she obviously doesnโt read very well either my item was brand new in box 30 something dollars asking price she offered 8 bucks lol ! ๐๐๐คฌ. Very insulting,thank you for commenting under her nasty comment. She thinks posh is all used items and said looking for a bargain...ummm go to the thrift store โGIRLโ. Sorry she was rude to you too.
lolas_boutique_
@chichong4 and Iโm trying to be kind but itโs so hard ya know?
chichong4
@lolas_boutique_ I understand. Keep doing you! Thatโs all we can do โค๏ธ
chichong4
@lolas_boutique_ yeah she totally flipped out on me for not accepting an offer for $3. Meanwhile I have 3 sales that night so I guess karma was on my side. I explained why I couldnโt accept the offer she flipped her lid saying I was giving her a sermon. I was like no, just an explanation as to why I keep rejecting your measly offer. Yes some items are used but I also sell items that are new. Itโs a mixed bag on here but def no need to take it out on people.
uptown_thrifter
so happy you loved your purchase๐ฅฐ
lolas_boutique_
@uptown_thrifter how did you do all that in just a few minutes! ? I was seriously shocked to see it go out that same day on a Saturday! I loved it all. My feet are so swollen right now and hurt so bad Iโm going to use the mask soon! I canโt get over how much I loved it all!
lolas_boutique_
@uptown_thrifter also I have your moms info Iโm going to get a big order together for spring with her. When will that trunk be available?
lolas_boutique_
@uptown_thrifter my daughter surprised me yesterday morning with an order from the sale! Iโm glad she got to order! I wish she had known bc she said it ask for a trunk keeper to give credit to. She also ordered the stripe leggings that match that stripe hoodie, but I think I need that shirt it will look best with the leggings, the other one I got from you is just too much stripe together. Ya think?
uptown_thrifter
@lolas_boutique_ haha im a fast worker ๐ oh yay glad u liked it!!
uptown_thrifter
@lolas_boutique_ idk I can ask my mom tho
uptown_thrifter
@lolas_boutique_ prob not bc MJ is so cute together like that!!
uptown_thrifter
@lolas_boutique_ oh man yeah tell her next time which trunk keeper to use๐ฅฐ๐๐
uptown_thrifter
@lolas_boutique_ oh yeah that tee would be so cute and complete the outfit
uptown_thrifter
@lolas_boutique_ I need to e mail u some pics of outfits of the stuff u bought! I've just been so busy with the upcoming holidays! but I'll have to do it after Thanksgiving๐ฅฐ
lolas_boutique_
@uptown_thrifter okay I would like that. Also I have a pair of pants that you have listed but would love to know what tops are the cutest with it...itโs the light blue with little white dot like print. It might be joggers and I think they have knee patches. I might buy yours if minecarea sz 12. I bought some stuff too big. I need to check.
uptown_thrifter
@lolas_boutique_ oh okay, I think they're a 8, I'll let u know what shirts would go good lol at the store right now๐
dressedmom
exactly!! Love it!!โค
Thought I was the only one that got ridiculous offers..no responses from offers/counter offers..or requests for more info/pics ..not even a thanks ..but changed my mind etc..weird/snide messages..But I'm from NY so I can take it..but yeah people are kinda rude..Sorry I just ranted all over your comments ๐คฃ๐คฃ
lolas_boutique_
@dressedmom lol no problem at all! I have had some really really rude people on here. And a lot of really nice sweet people! Thank you so much for stopping in! Have a very happy thanksgiving! ๐ฆ๐งก๐๐ค
dressedmom
@lolas_boutique_ Happy Thanksgiving to you too!! ๐ฆ๐ฅง
uptown_thrifter
@lolas_boutique_ so for that shirt that would go great for that outfit I could do $25? because it's a new release. also I'm still waiting for more of those shoes to see if I get a size 8 girls, they're really cute more of a boutique brand and leather that go good with Mj and brands like that! also check ur e mail I just sent one ;)
bobbie730
AMEN ! Thank you for encouraging others and reminding me. This is what my parents taught us and I hope I have passed it on to my children and grandchildren.
lolas_boutique_
@bobbie730 awh thank you for teaching them, itโs so very important. I hope the same for mine, I just try to be the best example that I can be. God bless you and your family and MERRY CHRISTMAS ๐! Have a great Thanksgiving too! ๐ฆ๐งก๐๐ค
lolas_boutique_
@uptown_thrifter hey girl! I fell asleep sorry! I am going to check my email. And I can wait on the shoes no hurry. I will just wait to buy the top after I see the shoes. You might find more stuff by then too lol
uptown_thrifter
@lolas_boutique_ Haha okay
dburkha863
This is my motto!!! I live by theses words. I donโt know why some people choose to be anything other than kind, caring, helpful and just plain mean sometimes!! All we can do is pray for them.
lolas_boutique_
@dburkha863 you are so exactly right! I am glad to hear that you are a kind loving person. God and prayer are a big big part of my life. Thank you so much for commenting on this. ๐ท๐๐๐๐
laigymnast1234
Omg I LOVE this ๐๐๐๐
lolas_boutique_
@laigymnast1234 thank you so very much! I appreciate you looking through my closet. ๐๐๐ท๐
jujuscam
Wow love this can I use in my closet? Thank you ๐
raann7222
๐๐ปAmen! love โคthose! Thank you for posting those. ๐ I want to Thank you for the add and check out your closet. Many Blessing's
lolas_boutique_
@raann7222 thank you so much! There are some really sweet people here but some really really rude and mean ones too. I just ran into two tonight that are just seriously mean hearted. No reason for any of that. I refuse to be unkind. Thank you for commenting here and looking at my closet! I appreciate you. ๐ท๐๐๐โค๏ธ
lolas_boutique_
@jujuscam SURE! I just saw this my friend! You go right ahead! Itโs needs spread everywhere! I would be honored for you and anyone else to use it. ๐ท๐๐๐โค๏ธ
raann7222
@lolas_boutique_ Yes, I've come across a few rude ones as well. Sad world were living in these days. Thanks so much for your friendly response. ๐ Kindness goes a long way. People may not remember what you do but, they always remember how you make them feel. Thanks for being so sweet. You put a smile on my face โบ If you like anything in my closet lmk. I'll slash those prices ๐
Many Blessing's
rachelashley356
This made me cry for real!
lolas_boutique_
@rachelashley356 awh.....you are too sweet! Just keep your head up and keep going! You can do it! If you EVER need to talk Iโm here. I will listen and send you my support. You will see her again soon! ๐๐ท๐๐โค๏ธ๐
darlascottage
Some people will try to bully to get their way, and itโs difficult when youโre a tender-hearted person to just put a halt to that. You donโt need to tolerate hateful behavior, and Poshmark has zero tolerance for that. Use the Block function if you must, and donโt spend any more mental & emotional energy on them if theyโre hateful.
darlascottage
If you bend over backwards when they spin a sob story & then turn on you because you arenโt a sucker, well you donโt want to have them buy from you anyway. Those are the people who take forever to rate you & theyโre rarely happy so the feedback wonโt be worth it anyway.
lolas_boutique_
@cottagegifts lol you are way way toooooo right! I love these comments! I had it happen about a week ago, she was my very best friend gave me a real big sob story I sent her the item she bought for pennys plus matching earrings and necklace bc I felt sorry for her then finally rated and didnโt even acknowledge the gifts but had a little turn snide remark about not being as big as she thought or whatever lol.
lolas_boutique_
I removed the comment. It was basically FREE plus it was EXACTLY AS DESCRIBED. I am just so so over it. I made this post a while back but yes it has served for many since then. I canโt believe how many rude hateful people are here. I donโt have ANY social media but this is almost like a fb with all the drama it can have lol. Iโm not about it at all. Thank you for your kind words you are so right! ๐๐๐ท
darlascottage
@lolas_boutique_ Oh I like it here a lot, not too much drama...I guess drama here & there is the little dash of hot sauce in my bland life lol
lolas_boutique_
@cottagegifts lol yeah but the drama I see is always someone being unkind and rude. I just donโt go for that. I love your posh name and the flowers around it! Very cute and a photo that people will remember. ๐๐ท๐๐๐
eschellapurvis
gorgeous saying I agree
dixonhart
beautiful ๐
msoileau688
So true thanks for this! You made my week!
uptown_thrifter
tagged you in a listing ๐๐
cee77
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midnightwizard
The one behaviour I hate is when the person is rude to me first but Iโm not rude back and ignore that part. Then they do it again so in my next response I point out the rudeness and they try to accuse me of having been rude to them and theyโre just reacting ๐
Trust me, if youโre trying to guess my emotions in comments youโre 95% likely to get it wrong.
So anyways. I noticed Iโve been blocked a few times and makes me wonder why but then I think well. Thatโs fewer people to greet. ๐
lolas_boutique_
@msoileau688 awh thank you!
lolas_boutique_
@midnightwizard yeah I just canโt tolerate rudeness. Itโs not necessary at all. Itโs so easy to be nice and kind. Have a beautiful day! ๐๐ท๐โค๏ธ๐
lolas_boutique_
@cee77 ๐ท๐๐โค๏ธ๐๐
lolas_boutique_
@dixonhart thank you so much! ๐๐๐ท
lolas_boutique_
@eschellapurvis THANKYOU so much! ๐ท๐๐
eschellapurvis
I guess you know I love this so true that's why I went off fb
midnightwizard
@lolas_boutique_ I just confess that in more recent times Iโve embraced my inner gangster and trolled back (sarcastically) here and there and itโs all in the name of good fun (for me ๐ I donโt like to play victim); I may not be as innocent but Iโm definitely never rude. Iโm just running a biz ๐คท๐ฝโโ๏ธ
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You too have a good one!
lolas_boutique_
@eschellapurvis me too! I put this up for a very very rude buyer when I first started posh, she accused me of hiding behind a purse in my photos lol. She was dead set I was hiding holding it up to make it โ look biggerโ lol. She says she can see me in the pictures behind it lol. Absolutely absurd! Plus lots more nasty talk she was a very nasty woman. I have had so many more of her I just try to ignore and keep going. ๐ท๐๐โค๏ธ๐
lolas_boutique_
@midnightwizard lol thatโs too funny! I agree! Do what you gotta do! There are some nasty nasty people in this world. I too have been guilty of taking my part with them , my family says Iโm too soft but I just try to be polite but sometimes ya gotta throw that out the door! ๐๐
eschellapurvis
@lolas_boutique_ I get them and shake my head telling me I can buy it cheaper etc , I never ever would go on anyone closet and do that, I tell them buy it and let me know where , buy it for me , my fiance calms me down they want to reposh , I see closet all reposhed ? I be an ambassador by now but, all new people lol are selling lv bags 200 bucks etc etc its hysterical and posh writes please tell if it's real told them look at new people seriously , love it I share all on here xo
eschellapurvis
@lolas_boutique_ agreed
eschellapurvis
must of been a hugh purse lol
lolas_boutique_
@eschellapurvis you are right girl! I donโt get it! You just have to keep on going and just do the right thing. Just be as kind and nice as possible . I want to scream sometimes but we just have to stay composed lol. Thanks for reaching out. Have a beautiful day! ๐ท๐๐๐โค๏ธ
artseaandme
I deal w rude people on the daily basis & I used to engage them w a response but then I started to consider the time & ENERGY they were just trying to rob from me , so now I just dismiss their nonsense & realizing that their unhappiness has nothing to do w me & is all them. Some people no matter what you do just will never be happy โค๏ธ Much love to all the hard working kind sellers out there! Keep Going & doing the great jobs you do every day โค๏ธ
lolas_boutique_
@artseaandme awh how sweet! you are exactly right! I try to just ignore it when possible. Sometimes it just gets the best of me. I have a recent story I will sum up for you, I bought a barbie set about a month ago, it was for my granddaughter birthday. it came with the nastiest sticky hair, I ask seller what it was and explained nicely it was for my granddaughter birthday. we went back and forth, continued........
lolas_boutique_
@artseaandme so I finally just said, nevermind I don't have the time or energy for this, my friends 4 yr old son JUST lost his life in a house fire, I will give it to her anyway. she came back with...I don't have time for this either! and blocked me! I was flabbergasted! then a few days ago she decided to jump back in and have another go at me...continue...
lolas_boutique_
@artseaandme just wait this response is terrible! continue.....
lolas_boutique_
@artseaandme ...she added a comment that said...I want you to know I have lost a child those barbies were my daughters and she was my only child so ENJOY! and blocked me again...continue.....so the kind person in me did feel bad. so I did some major research on her, she's LIED! she has two girls and none are dead! she talks all about them in her listings and JUST purchased something for them and left feedback about her daughter going to love it. I am certain of my research.
lolas_boutique_
@artseaandme so I will take your advice and just not respond to these types of people. it's truly not worth my time or energy. It's mostly buyers that are rude, most sellers I have bought from are amazing and I haven't had any issues with another one. Have a wonderful and blessed day thank you for stopping by. ๐
artseaandme
@lolas_boutique_ so awful Iโm so sorry to hear that! This year of solitude has been the greatest teacher of what I need in my life & toxic nonsense isnโt allowed anymore Im literally starting completely over Itโs terrifying yet exciting It opens me up to meet great new people and leaves the toxic behind Im looking forward to the adventures ahead ;) Glad we connected if you are on mer carr i creating at the beach is where youโll find me :)
rnorthern61
Love this Listing ๐
lolas_boutique_
@rnorthern61 thank you so much! โค๏ธ
lolas_boutique_
@artseaandme sorry I just saw this! I'm so happy to have met you too! I will take a look! โค๏ธ
cjk5940
so true!๐
katiemob
I just happened to stumble upon this!! It is so true about how u treat others!!! I hate when people r mean/rude!! It doesnโt ever have to b that way!! Some people need a mouthpiece seriously!! And 1 thing I totally hate..when some1 takes ur kindness as a weakness!! You become a target ๐ฏ I am a huge target tbh & have been fkd over my my dearest friends so many times in life. I ended up cutting every single โfriendโ outta my life! Iโd rather b alone than have โfriendsโ who just use me๐คฆโโ๏ธ
katiemob
EXCELLENT POST!!! I hope so many people see this for reminder to treat people nice..the way they would like to b treated!!๐๐๐๐๐๐
lolas_boutique_
@katiemob you are exactly right my friend! I have zero friends, I have cut them out, all they did was use me and flirt with my husband! I have an amazing life with my immediate family my kids, grandchildren and my husband. we stay to ourselves. I preach kindness to my family daily! it's VERY important to me to be kind to others, I get fed up with these rude poshers though! lol. it's tough to always be kind. ๐ thank you for the sweet comments.
katiemob
@lolas_boutique_ we stay to ourselves as well!. Same as u! I choose my family & the so called friends r all gone! When โbestieโ robbed my house it woke me the hell up! It made me realize u canโt trust any1! Even ur dearest friend for almost 30 yrs that Iโve shared my darkest secrets to! Damn this girl lost a LOYAL FRIEND!! I feel as tho I am my own species. Iโm a different breed lol! 1 thing I promised myself..to not being a human walking doormat!! Iโm so glad to hear how happy u are girl!๐
katiemob
And you keep being you!! You r such a dear!!! And you deserve all the happiness in this world!!!๐๐๐๐
lolas_boutique_
@katiemob Iโm glad you are standup for yourself! That is my daughters motto, donโt be a doormat! She gets so upset with me bc Iโm so nice to all these mean rude nasty poshers that I run into sometimes. I as a seller just try to be kind and friendly as possible and handle things professionally. I have felt like citing loose on a few lol. Sometimes I do snap and spout my mouth off then I feel bad, but at some point I just get fed up.
lolas_boutique_
@katiemob you as well my friend! You are very sweet. I wish you the best as well. ๐
piranhawench
Iโm with you! ๐๐ Itโs called The Golden Rule! Seems some people need a refresher course. I try to treat everyone with respect & kindness. It hurts my soul to read the things some people say. Iโm not going to start treating people disrespectfully.
Could I please copy these to post in my closet?
Keep to your standards & youโll always feel good about yourself & life.
Iโm Margaret @piranhawench
lolas_boutique_
@piranhawench hi Margaret! of course! you can use anything I have! I don't think you remember me! you have bought from me 2-3 times or more! I just sent you another message BTW. I have had so many rude people ,it's so crazy. I don't understand it really. Thank you for commenting and have a nice night! ๐ ๐
piranhawench
@lolas_boutique_ I do remember you! I
piranhawench
@lolas_boutique_ I hit post by mistake! Lol! I know Iโve bought from you before. I forget what but I know you are a very nice person! And thank you for letting me copy & post your signs! โฎ๏ธ๐๐๐ฆ
lolas_boutique_
@piranhawench oh okay! good! I was hoping you did remember. I don't remember either right off, I think you got some earrings that I made maybe. not sure. you were actually one of my earlier sales, I have been here almost 3 years now. โ๏ธ โฎ๏ธ โค๏ธ ๐ ๐
piranhawench
@lolas_boutique_ Youโre right! Itโs not all about sales! Sometimes I read peoples signs & they strike a chord in my heart. Make my day brighter, letโs me know someone else feels the same way I do. Sometimes itโs just the thought I need to help me through something, Never be afraid to post uplifting signs & pictures/videos.
piranhawench
@lolas_boutique_ Thank you for your comments on my closet decor!๐ And I looked at my purchases & see that I bought a BUNCH of things from you! Mailing envelopes, stickers..I also bought your Grannddaughter, grandson, daughter Key rings & bracelets. You even were soo nice to make exactly what I wanted! Thank you! Youโre a wonderful person!
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lolas_boutique_
@piranhawench yes I feel the same way! I don't like all that pushyness either. yes I knew you had bought several things! I appreciate you alot! I hope you have a wonderful day/evening, my husband is having a knee surgery tomorrow so I am nervous about that, he has a condition to where his BP drops under anesthesia, so I'm kind of nervous for him. any prayers are welcome! Thank you for being a kind sweet friend. ๐
piranhawench
@lolas_boutique_ @lolas_boutique_ Iโm sorry I didnโt get back with you yesterday. But I was saying prayers.๐๐ป Howโs your husband doing now? I pray everything went well.๐๐ป๐๐ป sending hugs & love
lolas_boutique_
@piranhawench awh how sweet! not a problem at all and I appreciate your prayers very much! he's in heaps of pain, it's not a good feeling. keep praying that he will feel better and that the surgery fixed his issue. Thank you so much Margaret, you are such a sweet friend. ๐
piranhawench
@lolas_boutique_ ๐๐ป๐๐ป๐๐ป๐๐ป๐๐ป๐๐ป๐๐ป๐๐ป๐๐ป๐๐ป Lots of prayers. Knees are nothing to play with! I have had some knee problems. Itโs definitely not fun.
lolas_boutique_
@piranhawench Thank you so much! He needs your prayers. I feel so bad I can't help him. He just hurts so bad. He's a very active man and always on the go so this has got him feeling down. but things could ALWAYS be worse, I thank God for taking care of him and us and for all he has done! ๐ you are a great friend.
piranhawench
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piranhawench
@lolas_boutique_ Iโm glad God had watched over you both. I canโt even imagine his pain. All you can do is be there for him. I know that feeling. Iโll keep saying prayers, sending positive vibes, and love. ๐
lolas_boutique_
@piranhawench Thank you ๐ so much! you will never know how much I really do appreciate you and your kindness! Keep praying because it's working thank God! He's not in as much Constant severe pain as he was. I'm hoping he will be on the mend. His leg is getting stiff bc he doesn't want to bend and use it. So I'm having to push him to do that and to eat and drink. it's been a tough time. Thank you so much! ๐
piranhawench
@lolas_boutique_ I understand that. I had ankle surgery & just sat for like a week or 2. I had a knee scooter but with a small house & lotsa stuff it was hard to get around. I wasnโt supposed to let my foot touch the ground. Tough time. Try standing up with one leg! And Iโm waaaay outta shape! So no muscles that wanted to do that!
piranhawench
@lolas_boutique_ I ate. The first 3 days I lived on coffee, Tostitos & not much else. Scrambled eggs some. And lots of water. I always drink lots of water. About the second week I wanted real food again. I wouldnโt suggest a diet if Tostitosโฆsalt!!! Means water retention!
piranhawench
@lolas_boutique_ So donโt worry. Heโll eat. Just nothing sounded good that first week. He does have to move his knee if the doctor said so. Otherwise the surgery will be for nothing. His knee will get so stiff & weak it wonโt want to move. Stay after him on this one! ๐๐ป๐๐ป๐๐ป๐๐๐๐ค๐ค๐ค
kristinlekki
Thx for the shares and posh love โบ๏ธ
lolas_boutique_
@kristinlekki you are so very welcome! ๐ Thank you for sharing too, ๐โค๏ธ๐ฅฐ๐๐ท
lolas_boutique_
@piranhawench yes! his knee is getting stiff! I think he needs therapy but the doctor didn't say a word about it! I'm going to take him to a different doctor, even for his follow up I don't like this doctor at all. Wow you were not in a good way after your surgery, he's eating a little more now not much. Tha k you for the tips and prayers. I just now saw this. sorry! ๐
piranhawench
@lolas_boutique_ Donโt apologize. Itโs like texting. I send it, you read it when you have time, you answer when you have time. No problem!๐๐
rands8763
So true, always choose kindness โค๏ธ
lolas_boutique_
@piranhawench sorry lol just saw this! hope all is well with my friend Sweet miss Margaret! or Mrs. I meant! ๐
lolas_boutique_
@rands8763 yes! it's my motto! I try to live by this, but I do get upset and can get grumpy now and then too! I'm not just always rainbows and unicorns lol . But will always try my best to be kind first. ๐ Thanks for the comment.
piranhawench
@lolas_boutique_ Hi, my friend! AndI go by Peggi to my friends, so please, call me Peggi. ๐ And yes, Iโm a Mrs but have never gone by that. At work (a junior high) a friend said the kids shouldnโt call me by my first name, it being disrespectfull. We settled on them calling me Ms.Peggi, which became Miss to the kids. Lol! No problems here. I saw these signs in your closet and decided it needed to be passed on. Howโs your husband doing? Howโs his knee? Weโre doing good. ๐๐๐๐๐ค
lolas_boutique_
@piranhawench lol I'm the same way! Mrs just don't sit well with me lol, miss is fine, or just my name for kids ,my daughters school friends almost lived at our house and they all called me miss Misty or miss wallace nope! I said pleaseee just call me Misty. we don't have our grandchildren or our kids say ma'am yes ma'am no ma'am it's just silly to me.
lolas_boutique_
@piranhawench he's doing okay. I don't understand why he's still in soooo much pain. he apparently has a low pain tolerance, but works like a dog in the hot steel mill gets burnt is a real man never complains ever, but this has him in loads of pain, I guess it still needs time, it's starting to really worry me. I have been so stressed over it. will it EVER be better?! Glad you all are okay!
piranhawench
@lolas_boutique_ You need to talk to the doctor about his pain. You should be able to do that on the phone (if youโre lucky). Maybe he needs too go in for a recheck, a little stronger pain meds. Just be sure he doesnโt get in the โhookedโ mode!
piranhawench
@lolas_boutique_ Could be like me only oppositeโฆ I whine, complain I& cry every day about my feet hurting (neuropathy), my back hurts, F**KING HOT FLASHES, etc. Little stuff in the grand scheme of life. But surgery? Iโm up & moving, not hurting, not taking pain meds (unless I overdo it), doing pretty much what I need to do.
piranhawench
@lolas_boutique_ My ankle surgery got me down. Couldnโt put my foot on the floor at all the doc said. Iโm not a strong muscle person, using 1 leg and a knee scooter, to get around wasnโt easy.
piranhawench
@lolas_boutique_ Getting up of the couch was hard enough. Going to the bathroom was painful trying to get up (with no safety bars) using the sink on one side & the wall in the other, to get up & down. I had such a tightened up my lower abdomen (the kind people work out hard to get) I thought I injured my insides! I FID whine & cry about that one!
piranhawench
@lolas_boutique_ He works in a steel mill! A man like in the movies, STRONG! That could be why heโs having trouble too. His image of himself as the strong, breadwinner, all man image he is, is fighting with the pretty much helpless one he feels heโs become right now. right now.
lolas_boutique_
@piranhawench I will reply to all thevrest too, but you hit the nail on the head! he's going around everyday says he's useless. he's not doing forvthe family, we are all taking care of him,he said he's depressed feeling etc, I'm worried about him. he won't take his pain medication, says it don't help and he's trying to save it bc they said no more refills gave him one refill
piranhawench
@lolas_boutique_ you a little humor. Put a pair of his favorite pants on. (Whether they got you or not,) And go show him. Tell him since heโs gonna be the whiny little girl youโll just have to wear the pants in the family!
piranhawench
@lolas_boutique_ I understand about his meds. But if he can do without now, he can later. Use them now! Later youโll be a little better!
piranhawench
@lolas_boutique_ Howโs your Honey today? ๐๐ป
zara_r_s
Couldn't agree more!! We need more kind people in our world๐ค
lolas_boutique_
@piranhawench โค๏ธ
lolas_boutique_
@zara_r_s yes we do! Thank you so much for visiting and your nice comment! ๐
piranhawench
@lolas_boutique_ You sent this on this page soโฆ.? DidI overstep? I didnโt mean to. Too much about the dog? I just get soo wound up about dogs. Iโm sorry.
piranhawench
@lolas_boutique_ I love you & didnโt mean to say anything to hurt your feelings. I know what you have on your plate & I think youโre doing amazing well! ๐๐๐โค๏ธโค๏ธโค๏ธ
lolas_boutique_
@piranhawench lol girrrllll! stop! I'm not in any way offended at anything you have ever said lol. I put a heart because I didn't want to just leave it as ignored, I just saw those messages lol when the comment above came in. no I took the puppy Info as great, I need to take him if he's still sick tomorrow.
lolas_boutique_
@piranhawench I love you too! don't ever worry about me getting my feelings hurt, I'm a tough one and don't take things so sensitive as most do these days. I can take almost any jokes, info, help, whatever it is I don't easily get offended. hugs and love! ๐
piranhawench
@lolas_boutique_ I never say things to intentionally hurt someone. I do get very passionate about some things. And I donโt get my feelings hurt that easily either. Love you!
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peaceolivedove
Your good thoughts are wonderful. Thanks for sharing them. I wish you much happiness and calm.
laladoran
Monday 10/17/22 @ 4:41 pm.
I LOVE, both of your post! So, very true, and understated. Trying daily, to be my representative for the Lord. I try my utmost, to do/be what you post say and say not to do!
Thank You,
Lisa
lolas_boutique_
@laladoran Lisa, awhhh that is the sweetest message! All we can do is try, I fail constantly and feel so bad about it but that's what grace is for ...right!? You seem like an amazing person and I'm Glad you ran across my posts and glad you liked them. I try to share the love of God whenever I can. โค๏ธ I pray that you and your family are happy and blessed each day. ๐
thebambib
Loved the quotations so well said and your comments as well. People do not understand
how important it is to treat each other with respect and kindness. Thank you for this spot on your site. Really helps to see what itโs like to be a seller.
lolas_boutique_
@thebambib yes it can be a great challenge, it's also fun too, you meet some REALLY amazing people who you know will become life long friends, such as magicmirror1 she has been my rock lately. she's not a seller ....yet. She started as a customer and now she's who I consider my best friend. โค๏ธ There are the bad apples too but you just gotta move on. ๐
lolas_boutique_
@thebambib and thank you for all your kindness and your sweet words. YES This is so true I would have never guessed what you are going through. So just good to keep it in mind. ๐
txgratitude
Amen
laureldoc57
@lolas_boutique_ I hope that your husband is doing better
lolas_boutique_
@txgratitude โค๏ธ
lolas_boutique_
@laureldoc57 Thank you so much! he is all well now from his knee surgery, now it's time for his shoulder surgery! Hopefully he's done after this. Thank you for your well wishes and kindness! I appreciate it. โค๏ธ
shawndelaney
Congratulations on hosting a Poshmark party! I hope you will consider my closet for a host pick!
lolas_boutique_
@shawndelaney please comment on my party banner 1st listing and not here, thank you.
shawndelaney
@lolas_boutique_ sorry! I didnโt see a party listing when I posted. Have a good one!
lolas_boutique_
@shawndelaney That's right, always comment on a bundle if not a banner, no big deal I just want you to comment there so I can make sure to see your closet tomorrow when choosing the hp. That's all. I'm going to be choosing from the banner. so go there and comment please.
stefanie_steig
I am SO excited for your first show today! I love brooches and you have so many!
lolas_boutique_
@stefanie_steig Thank you so much for the support! I'm super nervous! please come to the show tomorrow evening, I just updated the show time. โค๏ธ
stefanie_steig
@lolas_boutique_ I will be there and help in any way I can in comments. You will be great and it will get easier the more you do it. Thanks for the update on changing the day/ I would be so sad if I missed this. Have a wonderful day! ๐
stefanie_steig
Hello! No show today?
taragraham566
you know you are exactly right one thing I always tell my customers is that when we leave this world and people come to your funeral no one is going to remember the shoes you wore some won't even remember your name or remember how much money you had but the one thing everyone remembers is how you made them feel
kindness goes a long way always pay it forward
Tara566
lolas_boutique_
@stefanie_steig hey I didn't see your comment, I'm planning another show I'd LOVE to have you, I've had to rearrange and move shows around recently due to everything we've had going on. I will tag you in the next and I do hope you can come! I will bring alot of good brooches just for you to see! no pressure. Hope you are having a Merry Christmas ๐
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lolas_boutique_
@taragraham566 Yes that's exactly right! Thank you for the comment! I appreciate it. God bless and Merry Christmas ๐คถ ๐ ๐ โค๏ธ
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