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Thank you @azure_fashion for use of this slide❤️ 🌟🌟🌟Please be a respectful posher🌟🌟🌟

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trish_2016 Nice, I'm still getting the hang of this app so any advice or tips are much appreciated and I now know how to share:-)

Feb 28Reply

emilia_422 @trish_2016 💜😊

Feb 28Reply

jenniferg_213 ♥️♥️

Mar 02Reply

eileenkeusseyan Can I use this slide or should I create

Mar 03Reply

eileenkeusseyan My own. Sorry it sent before I finished my text 😊

Mar 03Reply

emilia_422 @eileenkeusseyan Please use it! Also, I saw it in the closet of @gigi420_1st she is a lovely posher that created it. She has other versions of it as well. Thank you for asking!

Mar 03Reply

eileenkeusseyan @emilia_422 ok. Great. Thank you!

Mar 03Reply

lovestoshop127 ♥️

Mar 09Reply

gamer_princess @emilia_422 can I use your slide I need this!

Mar 14Reply

emilia_422 @gamer_princess Of course! I got it from @gigi420_1st who graciously shared it to all of us to use. 😊 thanks for asking , hope it helps💗

Mar 14Reply

gamer_princess @emilia_422 thanks

Mar 14Reply

loving_my_furi @emilia_422 Thank you for sharing my closet. 💞"Kindness is contagious!"💞 🌻Krista🌻

Mar 15Reply

rlee73 📢📢📢🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯 love love this I can't for the life of me understand why any of this goes on it took me a whole 3 hours to figure out how to be a polite posture upon starting my closet 📢📢📢📢❤️❤️❤️🎯🎯🎯🎯📢

Mar 17Reply

rlee73 posture I wish my posture was polite 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Mar 17Reply

emilia_422 @rlee73 Oh, I know, right?!?!? Credit for this goes to @gigi420_1st I am not sure if the best is poshers with their own closet that offer half of listing price or poshers that don’t even accept orders. I could go on, but probably don’t need to😳 please feel free to use this. Have a wonderful day!

Mar 17Reply

emilia_422 @rlee73 🤣 me too🤣

Mar 17Reply

emilia_422 @rlee73 We over look typing errors...least of our worries😜

Mar 17Reply

rlee73 @emilia_422 yeah I never worry about typos I think my favorite is the welcoming board that welcomes you to Poshmark on my meet the and then puts a whole paragraph of what they have in theirs LOL we're all here trying to do the same one or the other actually three things buying and selling strictly buying strictly selling 👌👌😁😁😁🎯🎯🎯🤣🤣 it's so obvious when people actually take the time to read up about the person that you're sharing which again is the right thing to do

Mar 17Reply

rlee73 and I have one more 😁👌👌 shop and share events 🤫🤫🤫 I Kno there's closet that don't purchase , yet they're still in them , soooo not cool 😎🧐👎👎 Kay ran over see you on the flip side we all have much work to do here

Mar 17Reply

emilia_422 @rlee73 oh definitely the advertising too🤦‍♀️I don’t do any shop and share events. Good luck poshing, we need it sometimes🤷‍♀️

Mar 17Reply

azure_fashion @emilia_422 - Hey PFF you are such a sweetheart 😘

Mar 17Reply

rlee73 @emilia_422 Funny the more ppl I speak to behind the scenes cuz I ask a lot of questions LOL I'm still new here, I'm actually going to lay off of those for a while 👍😁👌 .Large majority of my new peeps don't do them either!!! good luck to you too you're right we do all need it sometimes and today would be the day 🍀☘️🍀

Mar 17Reply

emilia_422 @gigi420_1st Thank you, but it’s really you for doing all you do and sharing it with us! You are the best! 😘

Mar 17Reply

emilia_422 @rlee73 definitely ☘️ I just play a lot of the games on here that I swear I owe of sales too. They are a good resource to use to gain followers. The groups are also very supportive!

Mar 17Reply

rlee73 @emilia_422 Games and party's Yahoooo🎉🎉🎉💫💫💫🎯🎯🎯🛒🛒💸💸💯

Mar 17Reply

thriftjunkie76 Omg can I please post this on my closet. This needs to be known

Apr 27Reply

emilia_422 @thriftjunkie76 yes! Please do. I got it from @gigi420_1st

Apr 27Reply

azure_fashion @emilia_422 ❤️❤️❤️

Apr 27Reply

lovestoshop127 Love this!!!

Jun 11Reply

lindset2008 Question - I’m new- “serious buyers only”- does that mean don’t like something if you don’t intend to buy it?

Jul 27Reply

emilia_422 @lindset2008 Hi! It’s not necessarily liking something, it’s basically the lowball offer that follows. You should not feel like you have to purchase the item you “liked”. That’s my opinion anyway….

Jul 27Reply

lindset2008 @emilia_422 thank you! Bc sometimes I’ll like something simply bc I do- but maybe budget or occasion don’t line up at the very moment- thanks for clarifying- I was about to be like “ooops”

Jul 27Reply

emilia_422 @lindset2008 I totally think the same and never expect someone to buy something from my closet just bc they liked it. Some poshers may think differently, you run into a lot of different opinions here🤦‍♀️🤷‍♀️

Jul 27Reply

lindset2008 @emilia_422 Amen! 🤣

Jul 27Reply

courtneysueshop Thank you for this!

Sep 16Reply

luxtrendsla I love this! Thank you for sharing.😘❤️❤️😘

Sep 21Reply

lorencummings Well stated!! Thanks!!

Sep 23Reply

emilia_422 @courtneysueshop @luxtrendsla @lorencummings Hi PFF’s! So glad you like this slide🌟This is all thanks to my very sweet PFF @azure_fashion ❤️She very generously shares this with all that visit her closet. All credit goes to her! Have a wonderful day and happy poshing❤️😘

Sep 23Reply

azure_fashion @emilia_422 - You are such a sweetheart my beautiful PFF 😘

Sep 23Reply

marilynnscloset Thanks for letting us borrow this! I tried to find @gigi420 but it says page doesn't exist. It's a really helpful post.

Oct 11Reply

emilia_422 @marilynnscloset you are so welcome! And, my lovely PFF updated her closet name to @azure_fashion ❤️ she deserves the credit for this! Happy poshing!!!

Oct 11Reply

blushing_dahlia Ok. I’m obviously new, and there is a lot of Information to read, take in, and spoken and un spoken etiquette rules. I hope I’m not breaking one by asking what it means to “thank by sharing “ I’m mostly a buyer, and always send tons of love, have made posh friends, and have attempted to share. I just have no clue where my share goes ? You seem very knowledgeable, and if you have time, would you mind getting me up to speed on the share? Thank you so much, and please excuse us newbies!!😃💕🌺

Nov 09Reply

blushing_dahlia Btw…. LOVE your closet!!❤️

Nov 09Reply

emilia_422 @islandgirl1621 Ok, you are just to sweet! Being mainly a buyer the best way to show your “posh love” is by accepting your order in a timely manner and rating your seller. The rating means so much because it shows other possible buyers from that closet what to expect from that closet. Shares will show in the feed in your closet. I am not as knowledgeable as others, I definitely learn a lot from very lovely PFF’s l have met along the way!!! Happy poshing lovely lady!

Nov 09Reply

blushing_dahlia @emilia_422 💕💕💕Thank you:) You put a smile on my face for answering so kindly🤗Yes. I love sharing posh love in reviews. Have a wonderful evening!!🌺

Nov 10Reply

shopwisteria Same to you!!!♥️

Nov 10Reply

wavesoccermom1 Hi I’m kinda new-ish to Poshmark on the etiquette it says thank others with shares, does that mean physically thank everyone who shares your closet or just share theirs? Thank you very much

Nov 30Reply

emilia_422 @wavesoccermom1 Good morning! Just share backs are perfect! Happy Poshing to you friend❤️

Nov 30Reply

wavesoccermom1 @emilia_422 ty and where is the best place to share someone’s closer with my Poshers correct? And what do you do when you liked Items but you’re coming back and the posher they made them into a bundle for you but you didn’t ask for thr bundle? Should I not “like” items? I was liking them to come back to them. Sorry for so many questions I’ve been gone awhile.

Nov 30Reply

emilia_422 @wavesoccermom1 yes about the shares, and if the posher sends a bundle and you are not ready yet there is a place to comment in the bundle…just send a message and let them know😊

Nov 30Reply

blushing_dahlia @emilia_422 Thank you my PFF for the use of this slide. 🌺🌺🌺💕💕💕

Dec 13Reply

emilia_422 @islandgirl1621 Of course! This is all thanks to my very lovely and gracious PFF @azure_fashion ❤️

Dec 13Reply

blushing_dahlia @emilia_422 I will add her credit to my post! It’s a great slide!❤️

Dec 14Reply

yazznyc @emilia_422 90% of people don’t reply to bundle offers to say they can’t make the purchase - I’m so overjoyed when someone does and thank them profusely haha. And then there are those who never respond, continue to like and bundle, but you can’t make an offer as a seller because they failed to respond three times. I kindly explain why I can’t make an offer, invite them to send an offer and…crickets. Very perplexing 😂

Jan 27Reply

emilia_422 @yazznyc Oh, I know…that is happening to me as I type this! A bundle was made yesterday, I sent an offer (to be polite) and 🦗😂 I feel like not even sending an offer from now on. But I don’t want to be the rude one…perplexing indeed🤦‍♀️

Jan 27Reply

yazznyc @emilia_422 I will send offers periodically if they still have a bundle but after three attempts… but then the same person will still like things and bundle. I kindly let them know that I can’t make an offer and for them to please feel free to send an offer to me but I never get a word out of these people. It’s like filling up a cart at the grocery store every week, walking it to the checkout lane, and then thinking, “Eh, not hungry.” *abandons cart* Oh life and it’s many mysteries… 😅

Jan 27Reply

emilia_422 @yazznyc Exactly! As my son would say…SMH…😂

Jan 27Reply

yazznyc @emilia_422 Hahaaaa!!! But it actually doesn’t bother me so much, it’s just such confusing human behavior 😂 It’s the outright declines (especially the almost instant ones) without a word that get under my skin. I find that to be extremely impolite and choose to remove them from my Posh-sphere. It’s kinda mean, no?

Jan 27Reply

emilia_422 @yazznyc yes, when I get a lowball offer and I counter with a reasonable offer and they decline….oh dear, REALLY???? I have to follow my first instinct to just ignore the offer. I also have chosen to remove people from my posh life that don’t release funds much less rate…we should be able to rate buyers…

Jan 27Reply

yazznyc @emilia_422 I agree. There was a woman who said a bunch of mean things to me and chose to spam me by picking a random listing every hour and send the lowest offer Poshmark will allow hahaha pretty creative. But yes, we should be able to rate buyers. Someone gave me a bad rating because shipping was delayed due to weather even though it was shipped and tracking within 8 hours. I shouldn’t have said anything, but, well…a “tiff” ensued.

Jan 27Reply

yazznyc @emilia_422 AND I was sending her a message every day with an update, offered her 30% off of anything in my closet, etc.

Jan 27Reply

emilia_422 @yazznyc Wow, you have way more patience than I…I would have pushed the eject button after the second hour👋 A poor rating due to weather/ shipping deserves to be acknowledged. We do not control the shipping delays. Geez. Your closet is amazing btw😍

Jan 27Reply

yazznyc @emilia_422 Thank you!! ❤️❤️❤️ Well I reported her, she went back into the rating and wrote a bunch a lies. Giving me one star, whatever, I’m back to 5 average, but lying I take personally. I don’t keep quiet when people behave badly.

Jan 27Reply

yazznyc @emilia_422 Actually I think I said to her “You can no longer shop my closet if you can’t understand that I don’t control the weather.” Then full blown fight 😂

Jan 27Reply

yazznyc @emilia_422 That same weekend I had six other orders that were delayed, two actually LATER than hers, and all the others gave me 5 stars and even Love Notes for being communicative. At least the good apples outnumber the bad.

Jan 27Reply

emilia_422 @yazznyc I would do the same. Plus, all your positive feedback from appreciative buyers certainly outweigh a person like her. People will see all your wonderful feedback and know it’s her…not you❤️

Jan 27Reply

yazznyc @emilia_422 ☺️ Well she’s irrelevant lol 😂

Jan 27Reply

emilia_422 @yazznyc precisely!

Jan 27Reply

smerisma @emilia_422 can I post thus slide to my closet luv, If you dont mind, I couldn't have said it better myself,😉😘💋🤗💖 but if it's not mine I always give the respect to ask luv for permission luv??😉😊😁😘💋💖💞👍💌

Apr 16Reply

smerisma @yazznyc I feel the same way, as if we are not busy enough and try to work to find a piece since they dont respond but took the time to bundle it and then not even write a word, answer a question, or acknowledge that you sent offers and ask them of they have another price in mind please ask me the worst I can do is counteroffer or say no but I always try and work with my customers luv😉😊😁😘💋🤗💖💞👍💌

Apr 16Reply

yazznyc @smerisma ❤️❤️❤️

Apr 16Reply

smerisma @emilia_422 look above at my comment from yazz & you conversation lol😂🤣luv 😉😊😁😘💋🤗💖💞👍💌

Apr 16Reply

emilia_422 @smerisma 💖💛😂, right!?!?! Being courteous is not that hard 🤦‍♀️😂

Apr 16Reply

emilia_422 @smerisma Hi! Thanks for asking, please use this slide🌟 I got this from my lovely Pff @azure_fashion 👑

Apr 16Reply

daisy778 Hi! May I borrow this for my closet, too … good reminders, love the idea 💙

Jun 20Reply

designingdeb @emilia_422 You have an incredible closet and I’m just so blessed to have you and your pff put into my path. I admire your business, ethics, moral fiber, and building the opportunity for those of us who have been searching for ‘you & you’re group’s’ guidance during these crazy times. I feel very lifted up! Many blessings to you! Hugs 🤗 DesigningDeb

Jul 17Reply

dandelionharrim As someone new to selling on here, thank you. I’ve read guidelines but always enjoy hearing advice from those with the experience. ❤️

Sep 22Reply

eschellapurvis love this

Oct 13Reply

brooklyncat19 @emilia_422 hi honey!! 🌸I wanted to thank you for sharing me when you do, you are so sweet ❤️🥰. I have not been able to POSH much nor participate in any share games lately as my responsibilities with my aging parents and their dogs seems to grow every day! 🤣and I feel terrible about it! 😩I always appreciate you and I will share whenever I can, I just don’t want you to think I’m blowing you or the other ladies off!!….

Apr 07Reply

brooklyncat19 @emilia_422 Sending much posh love and good vibes your way, my sweet PFF!! 🥰❤️🌸🫶🏻 and happy Easter weekend!! 🐇🐣🐥💖💖💛🌸

Apr 07Reply

emilia_422 @brooklyncat63 Hi my Very Sweet PFF💕 no worries ever! I have been sporadic lately myself😫 things went sideways for a bit… Please know anyone in this lovely circle would only ever support each other without judgement. That’s been my experience ⭐️💕❤️ I share and mention my very best PFFS with the hope of putting a smile on their face💕⭐️❤️🤩 I wish you the most lovely Easter Weekend 🐣⭐️🐰💕🫶 You are the BEST!🙌

Apr 07Reply

cyndlyn Hello, I love your closet. Would it be alright if I use this slide? Sadly, there are some folks that need to read this. I won't do anything until you get back to me. Thanks! 😊

Jul 31Reply

emilia_422 @cyndlyn Hello! Yes, please feel free to use the slide, and thank you for asking…hope it helps! Happy Poshing!💕💕

Aug 01Reply

cyndlyn @emilia_422 thank you so much! Happy Poshing 💞💕💞

Aug 01Reply