This authentic, timeless Bottega Veneta Crossbody/Messenger style bag be unisex. Color is a dark grey, (I believe overall appearance is nearly black). Hardware is a somewhat matte - gunmetal shade. I have been very careful with this bag, though there are some subtle and natural signs of wear. See photos (note bottom corners and top entry). I don’t believe these are noticeable when carrried. Includes dust bag. Bag is 11” tall by 10.5” wide. Strap adjusts to be be as short 32” as or as long as 56”. Questions? Leave a comment below!