Buyer’s follow process so you don’t get scammed

Sooooo I was accused of being a scammer because I purchased a bag, then was contacted by the seller to try and discuss shipping options. Then I was told I would receive the bag, and on the 7th day, no shipping. So because I said something again, I was was being rude and the seller decided not to ship it…EVEN THOUGH SHE NEVER SHIPPED IT…I requested that the process be followed. See, it was ok for her to scam me, but it wasn’t ok for me to say something about it. MAKE SURE YOU FOLLOW THE process