Empower my fellow poshers.....

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It has come to my attention recently that there are ‘haters’ who have targeted my closet for reasons I do not understand ( nor do I care to) and continue to report me for selling counterfeit items. With all that’s going on in the world right now, it’s so very important that we treat each other with dignity and respect. It’s perfectly fine if we do not like one another (if everyone likes you you’re probably doing something wrong🤔) We DO however need to conduct ourselves in a manner that speaks

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fccandles To our integrity as women. Let’s hold each other up ( and accountable) and stop all of this terrible slandering of each other’s character. The truth is MOST of us do t TRULY know ... I mean really know one another. Stop hurting each other and start helping...... ask yourself what YOU can do to help another posher today 🥰

May 17Reply

fccandles @rea_pparel @glamourgurl7

May 17Reply

fccandles @blankcanvaspm 🥰

May 17Reply

fccandles @blankcanvaspm well I DO know AND love you 🥰😍😀

May 17Reply

blankcanvaspm @fccandles 🌺❤️

May 17Reply

glamourgurl7 @fccandles love it 😎🥰😍😘 love you too 🙏🏼🥂

May 17Reply

fccandles @glamourgurl7 🥰🥰🥰

May 17Reply

rea_pparel @fccandles Cheers! 🍻 And it gave me goosebumps. Your a good lady my friend. Love you to the moon and all the ways back, you know that!💗💗💗. One question- if a good woman gets a brick thrown at her- is it bad if she chucks it back??? NO- 😁 kidding. No chucking bricks. 😂 I’m a Lady, and I don’t need to pop off my gels. <<curtsy>>

May 17Reply

fccandles @rea_pparel just duck ..... I LOVE YOU MORE!!!!!!!!!🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰

May 17Reply

fccandles @andee_xo @lisalo3 my beautiful PFFs 😘

May 17Reply

findsbyfelicia You?!?! What?!?! You’re the nicest person on here and I don’t even know you personally. People have a lot of time on their hands. 💙

May 18Reply

fccandles @cabooklover you my dear are too sweet 😘 thank you... apparently not everyone agrees 🤷🏻‍♀️.. btw.. your pearl DIOR is spectacular! 😍😍

May 18Reply

findsbyfelicia @fccandles you keep being you! And thank you re: Dior! 💙💙💙

May 18Reply

lisalo3 @fccandles don’t let the Haters get u down! Jealousy is a terrible emotion! We know you’re a special lady sorry you have to deal with such childish ladies! Xoxo 🥰🥰

May 19Reply

fccandles @lisalo3 thank you Lisa 💋💋🥰

May 20Reply

lisalo3 @fccandles 🥰😘🍷😘

May 20Reply

fccandles @tacytucker thank you 🥰🥰

May 21Reply

alishkadanielle @fccandles I agree 100%. You were so kind when I reached out to you and you didn’t have to be. I was a complete stranger! I wish you nothing but the best!

May 22Reply

fccandles @alishkadanielle thank you Alishka🥰 Helping each other out and supporting one another is what this platform was built on:-) Happy Poshing my sweet friend!

May 23Reply

fashionfinds25 ❤️❤️❤️❤️

May 25Reply

fccandles @onceuponakind your G’ma was a smart lady 🥰

May 27Reply

hummingbirdhobo YES! LOVE THIS, LADY! Thanks for this today!😊❤💙💚💛🧡💜🖤

May 27Reply

kay_scloset @fccandles Oh how I LOVE ❤️ these uplifting statements. Thank you. Virtual Hugs 🤗. Kay

Jun 10Reply

fccandles @kay_scloset thank you Kay 🥰🥰

Jun 10Reply

coppergirl101 Nothing better than to LOVE, ENCOURAGE, & BE A TRUE TESTAMENT OF TREATING OTHERS THE WAY WE DESIRE TO BE TREATED♥️ Your uplifting and kind Spirit is that true testament for all of us here on Poshmark 🥰 Arlene

Jun 12Reply

ally_marc @fccandles I love it my friend, it’s from my heart🤗🥃👯‍♀️

Jun 20Reply

classylo I love it. Yes we all stand together

Jun 21Reply

fccandles @classylo ❤️❤️ thank you!

Jun 22Reply

60andflawless I love you my beautiful friend. Hope all is well with you and all your loved ones. 🤗🌹

Jun 29Reply

yvonne7456 boy i sure needrd to stumble across you today! i started to take my picture off my banner because of the haters on here. i thought my brown face might be affecting my sales. but seeing your encouraging post has definitely changed my mind. i guess haters just gonna hate for whatever reason. thank you for being you. hugs and kisses!🤗😋😄😊

Aug 02Reply

fccandles @yvonne7456 oh Yvonne! I am so happy you didn’t and sorry about the haters.Women can be cruel human beings for sure:-( I have seen it all on here but the best thing you can do is just continue on without a second thought to them. Clearly they have too much time on their hands 🤔

Aug 02Reply

fccandles @yvonne7456 you AND your closet are amazing 🤩 I’m here anytime you need 🥰🥰

Aug 02Reply

classylo Love it

Aug 13Reply

sundown9579 You go sista! I love it! Beautiful closet…Happy Poshing my friend! 😉💃💃💃

Aug 15Reply

fccandles @sundown9579 thank you 🥰

Aug 15Reply

fccandles @andee_xo @glamourgurl7 perhaps this post ( or another similar) should be put out and tagged to remind everyone to behave as grown ups…. Even if they don’t LIKE each other 🙄 All the pettiness …over handbags no less…has reached an incredible low point. Their is just no excuses any longer for this sophomoric behavior .. have a beautiful evening my friends 😉

Aug 29Reply

glamourgurl7 @fccandles I agree 💯 Seems like lately simple things are getting out of hand 🤦🏻‍♀️

Aug 29Reply

andee_xo @fccandles totally 💯 agree! Poshmark is business not a playground for blocking & social media antics

Aug 29Reply

artsyboogee37 LOVE your closet and messages! We need to empower women and be on one side for sure!!! Check out my other closet if you get a chance @boogee37 stay safe and well, hope you make lots of sales!!l 💗💗💗

Aug 30Reply

fccandles @artsyboogee37 hi Debra… thanks. I am ALWAYS happy to return shares…..

Aug 30Reply

pjprincess62 Perfect, love the positivity! 🥰

Sep 06Reply

fccandles @weloveclothes2 @pjprincess62 thank you both! I hope you all had a FABULOUS holiday weekend 😉🥰❤️

Sep 06Reply

drebinder @fccandles BRAVO 👏 WHAT AN AMAZING & POWERFUL POST! You’re the type of woman I surround myself with! Thank you for posting this ♥️♥️♥️

Oct 06Reply

sns_b Amen. !! 👌🙌🏻

Oct 06Reply

fccandles @ttbambi thank you ❤️❤️❤️

Oct 13Reply

fccandles @sns_b xoxoxo

Oct 13Reply

thebougeehanger so sweet and empowering to help our fellow sisters. nothing more wonderful than when we can come together and built one another up and encourage and inspire one another. I'm HERE FOR IT!!😍🤗💞💝💗👸👩‍🔬👧👩‍🏫👵👩‍🎓👩‍🌾👩‍🏭👩‍⚕️👩‍🔬👩‍💻👩‍💼👩‍⚖👩‍🔧👩‍🍳👩‍🎨👩‍🚒👷‍♀️🧕🕵️‍♀️👱‍♀️💃👩‍👧‍👦👩‍👧👩‍👦‍👦👩‍👧‍👧👩‍👦💅🙌🙌🙌🙌

Oct 16Reply

luv_4shopping Thank you for standing up for yourself and others! Stay strong and know there are plenty of women who support you and each other! 💕💕💕 🌸🌺🌼

Nov 05Reply

fccandles @luv_4shopping hello and thank you 🙏

Nov 06Reply

heymisssmelisss I’m still new and learning. How do you know if an item has been reported as counterfeit? And, how do you know you’ve been blocked and does it matter if you have? PM shut down my closet for a few days and I never knew why. I asked but was not given a reason.

Dec 21Reply

fccandles @heymisssmelisss hello! So people block others for a myriad of reasons. Does it matter? Well that depends on you. The only way you know is when you try and comment/share and it says you cannot. But it is closet specific. I reserve blocking for people who are CLEARLY harassing or lowballing. As for having your closet shut down…

Dec 21Reply

fccandles @heymisssmelisss that happens when you are breaking posh rules. Selling counterfeit, harassing or spamming, selling off platform are most common. Sometimes it’s someone who has more time then sense and spends it reporting you … 🤨

Dec 21Reply

fccandles @heymisssmelisss the only way you know you’ve been reported is you will receive a notification from posh OR they will remove t your item until you can prove otherwise OR they themselves deem it authentic

Dec 21Reply

heymisssmelisss @fccandles good information! Thank you.

Dec 22Reply

fccandles @heymisssmelisss you’re most welcome:-)

Dec 22Reply

itslove So crazy! You have been nothing but a kind and classy poshinista. Sending you positive vibes and wishes for a wonderful new year. 🤍🤍🤍

Dec 31Reply

fccandles @itslove thank you Alli 💕 Happy New Year to you and yours ❤️

Dec 31Reply

erika040404 Beautiful, all human should hold together and help each other. This post is awesome!

Jan 07Reply

fccandles @erika040404 thank you 😍❤️❤️Happy Poshing 😉

Jan 08Reply

mirage2me You made our heart smile. Thank you 🙏

Jan 31Reply

fccandles @mirage2me Awe! Thank you my friend:-) 😊😉

Jan 31Reply

bluesea38 @fccandles hello my dear, no one who knows you, even through pm, can say anything negative about you, you are kind, generous and very funny, so my advice, and I don't have time for so much BS either, Don't pay attention to it, you've always been against replicas, so what the heck? anyway, there are few women who support other successful women, it has always been like this, so here I am, to continue sharing in this place full of successful woman, and for the haters.... go F@#$& yourselves🤬🤣

Feb 01Reply

fccandles @bluesea38 oh Lourdes thank you 🥰 I agree 100% … People think because it’s the internet, they can say/do anything. I appreciate your support ..you my friend are a true beauty inside AND out 😉xoxo

Feb 02Reply

bluesea38 @fccandles anytime my friend❤️

Feb 02Reply

caspen @fccandles 💕❤️this💕❤️

Feb 06Reply

fccandles @caspen Thank you 🥰❤️❤️

Feb 06Reply

soireegoodies4u What a wonderful message! Yes let’s stand together!

Mar 23Reply

soireegoodies4u @seansanburn @toughluck00 @swingawaymerril @nonapoole @nananellasrooms

Mar 23Reply

toughluck00 Kim, stay strong and true to your beautiful message "build a firm foundation with the bricks the haters have thrown at us all". Poshmark should do something about those dangerous people

Mar 23Reply

fccandles @toughluck00 @soireegoodies4u thank you both for you kind words ❤️❤️❤️❤️

Mar 23Reply

toughluck00 xoxo💖😍🥰

Mar 23Reply

nananellasrooms Fabulous messages you have here. It’s a shame you had to deal with this behavior at all. I’ve been blocked by closets who continue to share my items so I can never reciprocate. Never knew the why’s either. I’m learning you have to try and not let people like that win and get what they want. You have the support of all who are here to help one another rather than trying to take someone down. Don’t let them win and fight for your business if it starts affecting it!

Mar 23Reply

fccandles @nananellasrooms thank you for your kind words. People on this platform can be brutal. I appreciate your thoughts❤️

Mar 24Reply

redvelvetshoe I love this post. I agree 💯 with you; there's enough negativity & pain in the world, we should be lifting each other (especially other women!) up, not tearing them down. I created an advocacy platform called The Gentlewoman Boss after my horrible experience with haters & bullies in the workplace - most of them other women, so I'm grateful when I see other women speak up on this. Thank you 💝

May 24Reply

fccandles @redvelvetshoe thank you! So sorry you have had that experience… :-( people can be so terrible!

May 24Reply

redvelvetshoe @fccandles 🙏🏻💜

May 24Reply

tallchelly that's terrible! I'm so sorry you're experiencing that! ....I came across your page yesterday, and found it really helpful to dealing with the behaviors I've seen on here, not so much with harassment, thankfully, but definitely with poor etiquette and (lack of appropriate) business sense.

Jun 16Reply

tallchelly Because of your page, I redid the listing prices to lowest but fair firm price only, added that note to each listing, and then added a page about my closet price structure and reason. I'm hopefully this will avoid future issues (although I still had a couple people continue to send low offers after expressly saying don't do that), oy vey

Jun 16Reply

traceykeppel @fccandles that’s what I get for poshing when I’m not fully awake… I thought I was discounting it for you ☹️

Jun 21Reply

ray_rays_treasu @fccandles love this ❤️

Aug 30Reply

fccandles @rayraystreasure Thank you my friend 😘😘

Aug 30Reply

fccandles @leahfields77 🥰😉have a great weekend:-)

Oct 30Reply

bluesea38 @fccandles hello my dear friend, wishing you and your family, the best for 2023! Happy new year!🎊🎉🙏

Dec 30Reply

fccandles @bluesea38 Thank you my sweet friend! I hope this new year brings you and your family happiness and health!!! Xoxo K

Dec 30Reply

teresarullan Yes 🙌

Feb 25Reply

wewearpink Haters get theirs in the end. Keep being a good you, let the Universe sort out the rest. Then sit back with some wine and watch as karma is dealt. Boom goes the dynamite!✌️

Mar 27Reply