The sweater is extra large and does have signs of wear. I wore it a couple of times, but the stitching can separate a little. I'm glad to take more photos and send them if needed. I took a close-up of the one side, which I thought was the worst. Overall, it is a very cute sweater, and the matching handbag really completes the look. The handbag is in good condition. It was small for me, and I needed something bigger. I did get loads of compliments on these. I know you will love them!