Most items that show sold,in fact did not sell bc I canceled the sale

Most (not all) but most items that show sold,in fact did not sell bc I canceled the same due to fear of being scammed bc of those buyers hitting buy with out any prior communication, I have found that having prior communication prior to any sale,always helps with avoiding being scammed. I hope all understand & no one takes any offense, i appreciate the understanding as I have aways been an honest member on here. Thank you