PLEASE ACCEPT YOUR PURCHASES!!!!!

Ok so when I order something from another posher within the first hour or opening the package I inspect it and accept. You pay when you order it so the money is already taken out of your account! I don’t know why sooo many of my orders go 3-4 days until you accept and release the funds to me 😩😬 Please poshers have some courtesy and accept your orders when you decide to keep them not the full 4 days. Am I the only one who feels this way or always accepts timely? Just buyers etiquette to me 😉