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Here's the thing...I have no problem holding something for you if I know you're going to follow through with your purchase. I promise you will not hurt my feelings if you change your mind. 😊 what will hurt is that you ignore me. I have worked most of my life in customer service and I believe in giving the utmost attention to buyers and I will go above and beyond to satisfy. So please have some respect and answer me back. No harm no foul if you changed your mind just tell me! Life will go on!!

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darce_bijoux Hopefully no one takes any offense to this! It's just aggravating to be asked to hold something or to find a special request item for someone so they can in turn forget you exist and never answer you back. What i found for you cost me time and energy and what I held for you cost me potential money. So at least remember to tell me if you want it or not. I understand ppl forget things (i know I've been guilty of it!😳) or things happen like you didn't like the pic or whatever but just a simple response like "I changed my mind" or I can't at the time but I'm still interested" or just anything will put a smile on my face. Just because it displays common courtesy....something we should at least have for one another!

Sep 10Reply

dollyeyez I totally agree :)

Sep 11Reply

sophie01 @xoxochristia I just had to comment as I was sharing your closet tonight and saw this. I am SOOOOO ticked off tonight because I held something for a !#%& buyer for a week and a half... (she kept having me hold because her paycheck was "not as much as she thought"... I cannot tell you how mad I get about this as you can tell! People are so rude. This was the last day she had to purchase it and of course, she is not responding to me. I am giving her until tomorrow morning (not telling her that obviously) but at that point, I am going to politely thank her for her rudeness, and ask her to take a hike in addition to telling her I am going to mention her name around so no one else gets left holding the bag for her. What I am not telling her is that I went through her closet and found a few items that were Poshmark No No's and I promptly reported them to PM earlier today... I have held things before and got stuck and always vowed I would never do it again but I always do. Another lady today asked me if I would take a certain amount for a bundle and she would purchase right away "because she had her credit card in her hand'..... I accepted her offer which was fair and promptly made the bundle within 5 minutes. That was around 1:00 PM this afternoon and did not hear back from her until about 6:30 or 7:00 tonight at which time she said she was purchasing right then... Of course she hasn't... I am hoping that her bundle gets purchased tonight because I am not putting a hold on it... Ugh, can you feel the frustration I am feeling tonight?? Sorry for the rant, thanks for listening...Happy poshing, yada, yada, yada. LOL!!

Sep 11Reply

darce_bijoux @sophie01 right??!! I mean I you forth and tell me omg i forgot I accidentally unlike it or whatever that's fine just tell me! I mean I've been guilty of forgetting but the minute a seller tags me and asks hey you still there are you going to buy or not I respond back and apologize for the delay too!! I hate being ignored bc I know that I'm tagging your name right and they're active on PM so how hard is it to answer me?? It's ok....rant away of you need to!!

Sep 11Reply

sophie01 @xoxochristia Thx for understanding😁😁. I knew I was going to unload on some poor soul tonight. Thx for the great listening ear👂👂

Sep 11Reply

darce_bijoux @sophie01 you're welcome! I kinda felt I was the only one and didn't want to make a post bc I didn't want ppl to think I was rude or ungrateful but I'm so glad I did! Now others can vent too!!! Just make this your vent page!

Sep 11Reply

lwschlprncss @xoxochristia Hi Christia!!💕SO nice to meet a fellow Puerto Rico native....my Mom was born and raised there and moved to MI when she was 14 so she could learn "proper English" and stayed!! LOL! I LOVE that you created this!!👏Even worse is those who forget the time zone differences and think nothing of asking me to create a bundle at 11:30PM--not realizing that it is actually 2:30AM for me--and NEVER completing the purchase!!!😳Then they add insult to injury by commenting again and again that they'll be buying soon, yet WEEKS later have still left you hanging!!😁Taught me an invaluable lesson and I will never again go out of my way to wrap and package so I'm ready to ship as soon as you buy!!!😞

Sep 11Reply

darce_bijoux @lwschlprncss hi Nicole! That's too funny about your mom! That's what my dad did to us! I was born in PR but when I was 18 and a senior in HS and we moved back to PR so we could "get back to our roots!" I hated it at first but now I'm grateful for the experience and most of my kids were born there too! I haven't been back in a few years but I'm going this Xmas and take my youngest to experience island life lol. I felt kinda bad at first when I posted this but honestly I know now that I'm not the only one! Maybe now ppl will have some decency and just common respect! I've only traded one time and it was ok but I was panicked the whole time so id only so it with ppl I know as trust but as for holds....nope!! I mean there's no excuse to just say no thanks if you don't want it! Well now you have a vent page for the future where you can let it out and not be judged! LOL weeeeepa mi hermana boriqua! Btw where's your mom from?!

Sep 12Reply

lwschlprncss @xoxochristia LOL!! SO true!! I always mess up with city she was born in and which city her siblings were both in, but I'll ask her again. I do know I have family in Bayamon, Caguas, Carolina, Old San Juan, San Juan, and San Lorenzo, as well as Ponce!🐸I am in the process of purchasing a home in Ponce, near the Seralles Castle. I fell in love with that area and my Uncle had a friend who is in government and they are transferring him here (to the States) so I'm getting a great deal!😀Kudos to your patents for being able to live there with without AC! It is TOO humid for me and my asthma to be there without it!😳

Sep 12Reply

darce_bijoux @lwschlprncss omg! Are you seriously buying a house up there? By the Castillo?! That's the area my family lives and grew up in!!! I know that entire area like the back if my hand with my eyes closed!! Most of them live on Calle Atocha now except for my parents and my oldest son. That's such a coincidence! I also used to date a guy who had like a bigggg house up there to but that was ages ago! What a small world!! LOL the heat doesn't bother me like I thought it would...or not having hot water! I live in the IN/KY area and omg it's sooo gross out here and it def flares up my asthma worse than PR ever did! I would not wish these summers on anyone!!

Sep 12Reply

jenn1143 @xoxochristia ugh this just happened to me rrcently. But seems to happen alot. Really hate it. Anytime ive asked someone to hold i always come back

Oct 17Reply

darce_bijoux @jenn1143 exactly! It's just pure common sense!!

Oct 17Reply

1socalmom That's funny!!!! Going through this right now on TotSpot! More than anything, I need to justify to my husband why I'm in my phone so much...buy my stuff! Haha

Nov 07Reply

darce_bijoux @j_harmon1122 LOL! Hubs says I spent all my time on my phone and I always say I'm working!! Then he gives me that look! ☝️

Nov 07Reply

1socalmom Exactly! I say I'm working too! Haha then I say, "you don't want me on my phone, but you ask if I got paid?" Men! Then I give that face ;)

Nov 07Reply

darce_bijoux @j_harmon1122 OMG! That's my same conversation! Men right?! They just don't get it!'

Nov 07Reply

maidmarian Perfect picture! Love the expression!😆

Nov 08Reply

darce_bijoux @maidmarian LOL right?! 😮😆😆

Nov 08Reply

maidmarian 👍

Nov 08Reply

jaymoon @xoxochristia it's so annoying how ppl always do this! So my phone will let me posh but I haven't been able to text in hours 😱😥 I need to update phone so maybe that's why!? Idk but love the pics you sent!!! 😍

Nov 10Reply

goldenpolkadot @xoxochristia I need to post this in my closet! I recently got burned twice then the next person who wanted me to hold I had to say no and I took the time to explain and even tag in posts of the recent events and what do ya know??? I got blocked!!!! LMAO oh well...good riddens ;-/

Nov 11Reply

darce_bijoux @jaymoon oooooh! It was my fault...I blew up your phone yesterday!!

Nov 13Reply

darce_bijoux @partymk999 Sheeesh! Some people! If you want to posh lift it and use it in your closet your welcome to do so! I totes understand...I wish there was like a proper etiquette handbook for people with just basic simple manners!

Nov 13Reply

toopretty @xoxochristia @partymk999 I'm so glad I read this!!! I have had so many "girls" do this to me. It is so frustrating!!! Then to find they have blocked ME!! instead of just saying sorry I don't want it or can't afford it now😱

Nov 14Reply

darce_bijoux @toopretty Preaching to the choir here! LOL That's why I made this...so people like us who have manners can vent and people who don't have manners can finally get a clue! LOL

Nov 16Reply

toopretty @xoxochristia I think I need to borrow this😊💕 that is the look on my face .

Nov 18Reply