Poshmark Table Talk: Likes & Dislikes in a seller

Name: Poshmark Table Talk: Likes & Dislikes in a seller
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Welcome to my first survey! I want to get a feel for what you like and dislike in a seller! Answer below

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vintageretroroc @footcandy @laurenlhreed @thatlynne

Feb 25Reply

lifeinstiches I 💞💞💞💞💞 you closet for 1 name perfect, 2. Background on what is really vintage is vintage. Super cool you use the right post from that era amazing. Keep up the great work

Mar 04Reply

vintageretroroc @hotpantsrhoads Thanks for your feedback. I'm obsessed with vintage but I still want the pieces i sell to be relevant, ya know? Thanks for appreciating my closet *giggle*

Mar 04Reply

vintageretroroc @hotpantsrhoads If you don't mind tagging others, please feel free. I'm really interested in hearing from potential customers.

Mar 04Reply

vintageretroroc @heatherbradley Ahhh yes, bad photos a common mistake. Also, pricing is very important but it can be difficult. One needs to do the research first before pricing. That's what I've been doing. Thank you for your feedback! If you don't mind tagging others on this post, please feel free. I'm really interested in hearing from other Poshers.

Mar 04Reply

kaylinml Thanks @heatherbradley for the tag! @vintageretroroc I'm with you guys on bad pictures, but what's worse for me, are no pictures of the actual item. Stock photos are fine, but as a customer - I wanna see that what you have for sale is indeed the same item as the stock photo and see that it's in the condition stated. Pricing is challenging overall. I'm not a fan of seeing items listed at MSRP prices and its used. Basic pricing criteria I use in my closet: condition, brand, and rarity. Low-balling drives me crazy - especially from sellers who are offering less for my NWT item than the price they have listed for the same used item in their closet. Last but not least, questions. Sellers who have clearly been online/updated listings but haven't answered or acknowledged a customers inquiry just seems rude. At least respond and say you'll get measurements/details/ etc when you can. Not responding can cause a lost sale and forms a distrust between seller and customer. Whew! That was a lot! Sorry about that but hope this helped. 😘👍

Mar 04Reply

hrachal @heatherbradley @kaylinml @vintageretroroc Hello, Ladies! So far I'm in complete agreement. I hate the low ballers who offer me 90% off the MSRP of a NWT item...that doesn't even include Posh's cut. Also, I can't understand, like you said, why you would only use stock pics for a pre-loved item...especially shoes. I do love the lovely poshers though that just seem to be there for you when you need a little pic-me-up! ...Heidi

Mar 05Reply

vintageretroroc @kaylinml Ahhhhh yes, stock vs actual! Actual is always best AND if you have access to a nice stock photo post it WITH the actual. This builds buyers trust. Listing used items at a retail price...wow! Maybe PM could offer more tips on pricing. This seems to be the biggest issue. Thanks so much for your feedback! Tag others to get in on the conversation if you feel so inclined. Your comments are very informative.

Mar 05Reply

vintageretroroc @footcandy

Mar 05Reply

footcandy @monicaischinger

Mar 07Reply

shopwanderchic Love your closet!!!! Love all things classic & vintage! 💗💗💗💗💗

Mar 12Reply

vintageretroroc @bellalunasshop Thank you and thank you for visiting my closet!

Mar 12Reply

jeweledonyx 1) Pushy sellers no longer frighten me off (newbie, turned a buyer acct into selling 2/15) I just ignore them now: like something & get stalked around w/ wanna buy? interested, etc. It's still irksome 2) all stock photos all the time. I don't mind if exact measurements of a garment are given. I also want disclosure on garment origins. I need to know a LG=US Large, not foreign Large; there is often a difference. So either add a conversion chart from your measuring it or disclose your stock photo is a foreign teenager w/the head cut off. 3) Refusal to answer direct questions by deflecting or being vague. There's every chance I didn't ask correctly, so I'll try again. However, if I ask for a bust measurement and you give me size 14, then give me large? I'm over it, bye Felicia! 😁 😁😁🌷🌷🌷😇😇😇 @bluidvvl, @carrolls9111@mopie @dreadhead-Good survey here!

Mar 13Reply

mopie @jeweledonyx Whew! This convo made me feel much better. I come from 20+ years of sales. This forum is so different to me;but after reading this, I feel that I am more on track with thoughts, attitude and professionalism. I just got an offer yesterday for 50 percent off a new item, which I just lowered price on. I was nagged and hassled, then blown off! Who are these people? I don't want to shop in their closet now... I'm now keeping a hand written list of names not to share, buy or sell to. @jeweledonyx, makes me preventative of buyers, where I might need that shipping video coverage!!!! I don't need scary, stressful buyers. Not worth the $7 profit!!!! 💖💋💖THANKS GIRLY SQUIRRLIES! 💖💋💖 I am so grateful for fun, mature and honest conversation! This is a learning curve! 😨

Mar 14Reply

jeweledonyx @mopie You are truly welcome! People I run into here are mostly honest hardworking ladies. Then there are the fruits and nuts. They're everywhere on the internet and Posh is no different. You got a lowball offer. 50% off any fairly priced item is ludicrous unless you just want it gone. I'm nice once, then I'm over it. Make sign: No lowball offers, No negotiations except w/the offer button. Then just say NO, LOL. Last place I'd like you to visit is @queenmum. Look for her notations in her closet about her blog. Visit the blog for the most in-depth & funny compilation of FAQ I've ever seen. It's excellent! Happy Poshing!!

Mar 14Reply

mopie @jeweledonyx Ooooooo! Thanks, I will. hey, was just told by (seems like) Posh veteran;that I should take down my bathing suit (non Posh approved) or she won't "share". Was not threatening, very constructive and nice about it. And, she is right! So, I edited the listing, and put myself out there as an example. What 'cha think?

Mar 14Reply

rhonda_latimer I have been selling/buying on poshmark since january, one of the most frustrating things I have come across is when there is an item I interested in purchasing, and days later, there is still no response!

Apr 19Reply

vintageretroroc @footcandy New comments

Apr 19Reply

joyn123 Honestly? I want to see things that people have bought & worn. Pieces they liked, bought, worn, and loved. I don't like to see "I have this in S, M, Lg and XL. All colors too!" If I want to buy something new that looks like everyone else, I will go to the store. I look here for the unique things!

Apr 24Reply

beesknees17 Ditto everyone about the stock photos. When someone ONLY posts stock photos I won't even consider buying it - it's like selling a used car and only showing shots of a new one makes NO sense whatsoever. Also I notice a lot of people low ball considerably on vintage items here people don't consider the time/effort it takes to find these pieces. A lot of the time you're buying pieces that you will probably not come by on your own. I wish people would appreciate that aspect a bit more.

Apr 29Reply

jeweledonyx Time gave perspective: #1 Sellers let people talk price &/or haggle in listings If it works , the buyer tries it on me #2 used + old doesn't = vintage or value. Ur used rubber thongs from 2010 should be tossed not sold #3 Big Sale!! U go & pics look like dirty laundry from U, ur man, ur kids & cousin Pookie.#4 Spell sequins, sequence? Bye, Girl!--Kaye💎🎶💎 @bluidvll

May 05Reply

bluidvll Well a lot have already been covered like research for pricing, pics, lowballing, harassing customers because they liked an item. One that bothers me is sellers who ask to trade, I made several signs through out my closet that I follow all posh rules its even next to user name! No I will not trade! That's if for now thanks for the tag @jeweledonyx 😀😀💙💙

May 05Reply

jeweledonyx I started as a buyer; lots did. There r rules on FB, Twitter & etiquette, 4 all social media. Why do sellers think this is a garage sale? No, I don't want ur used undies, ur half used bottle of Chanel, ur eye shadow that's been tested just 1 time, ur used, but clean makeup brushes nor that partially partly used VS bath set u didn't want in 2013. The rules r clear. Can't find? Ask! Don't understand? Get Hooked On Phonics! U have issues! --Kaye 💎🎶💎

May 05Reply

jeweledonyx Last pet peeves: sellers w/one dark pic, one line description: EUC shoes, $95! R U serious? Then they get snarky if you ask a question!. Finally , selling elsewhere? Fine! Make the listing on Posh -not for sale- or delete it. I don't need an explanation! i wish I need not check last updated to see if it's now an abandoned or buyer's account--Kaye💎🎶💎

May 05Reply

winsomewardrobe @vintageretroroc First I want to say that I just found your closet and I am in heaven! The pieces themselves and the way your photos are styled is wonderful. I think you are my first serious closet crush!! My pet peeve is when someone describes their item as vintage when it isn't. I giggled out loud at @jeweledonyx comment about "sequence" - though I try not to let it, that really bothers me too. :)

May 09Reply

vintageretroroc @thatlynne

May 13Reply

thatlynne USE A FLASH!! You know that black cotton dress isn't going to photograph easily...stop making it hard to see!

May 13Reply

marlosy Your closet is a-ma-zing!! All I can say is...wow! 😊

May 19Reply

vintageretroroc @marlosy Awww thanks so much!

May 19Reply

marlosy You're welcome!

May 19Reply

smlatour I almost missed you tonight when I was sharing. At least you were on your game😉💗

May 30Reply

vintageretroroc @smlatour Oh yeah? LOL No worries, I get confused with the time because I'm on the west coast. Thanks for sharing m'thingz!

May 30Reply

kylej @vintageretroroc Great thread! Very helpful insights from everyone! @jeweledonyx Amen to Sequin 😂❤️

Jun 24Reply

smlatour Welcome back Charea! How was the convention?😀

Jul 14Reply

vintageretroroc @smlatour So amazing! I have so much to work on LOL

Jul 14Reply

thewispygypsy Charea, this is an adorable pic! I love you closet look. But I have told you that before! Just wanted to remind you, only ONE item that is not for sale in you top 15 until 10pm! Hope you make a sale tonight! And that I see ya tomorrow in Tina's closet!

Jul 17Reply

vintageretroroc @dvacante Oh wow, I wasn't tagged on the final share list, so I didn't prepare my closet.

Jul 17Reply

vintageretroroc @dvacante Thanks for thinking of me but, I missed the sign up time. Hopefully I don't miss Tina's tomorrow :).

Jul 17Reply

thewispygypsy Jeez!! Forgive me? No, you didn't make the cut off and many had already finished when I saw you. Then I decided to share you anyway. And was on a roll. I'm trying to make sure no one gets in any trouble when we start enforcing the rules. I hate being the bad guy so I'm trying to avoid it! Lol! Is that chicken? Or nice? Lol. Yes, see you tomorrow😉

Jul 17Reply

vintageretroroc @dvacante No not chicken at all. I've seen (but fortunately haven't experienced) a few bullies on here and it's not a good look. Thanks for being kind. It goes a long way!

Jul 17Reply

thewispygypsy Aww. Make me blush😊 This is the coolest idea. I absolutely agree about the stock photos. And offers of 60% off asking. People that don't respond either as a buyer or seller. And like you said, people being rude. For some reason, people find it much easier to be outright rude to others online.

Jul 17Reply

vintageretroroc @fashionplz Thank you!

Jul 30Reply

footcandy Poshmark Pet Peeve...When you work hard to promptly answer questions from prospective buyers then they promptly ignore you...radio silence. Don't make me jump through hoops then go away. Just say thank you and move on. I hate being in limbo with buyers.

Aug 26Reply

meaganclaire I really want to purchase this item but I wish the seller wouldn't.... List an item and then disappear off the face of the earth! If you're not going to sell on Posh any more, then delete your listings. Or, if you don't check the app much but still want to sell, please change your settings to receive email notifications. That's my biggest posh peeve. 😊 Sometimes I just never hear back from sellers when I ask a question or even make an offer.

Oct 02Reply

vintageretroroc @meaganclaire I hear you! I've had that happen soooooo much. This was made not only as a means to vent but maybe help sellers become better sellers. Thanks for sharing!

Oct 02Reply

smchop I'm vintage at heart and ♡♡♡ your closet! We are in the same share group and I am always glad when you come up in rotation as I enjoy your closet so much!

Oct 02Reply

victoriamay Great closet! 💞💞💞

Oct 09Reply

vintageretroroc @victoriamay Thank you and thanks for visiting my closet!

Oct 09Reply

dolledupdes I really was going to quit, but then i got a series of deals and great sellers. Now i cant quit.

Oct 23Reply

vintageretroroc @dolledupdes Hahahaha it's so worth staying! There are some really good deals on here and seeee you found them!

Oct 23Reply

colimorg Don't take the time with packaging your purchase. Items are packed haphazardly/sloppy , no thanks of any sort. But same posher's get upset if their items are sent same way.

Mar 19Reply

vintageretroroc @colimorg Ahhhhh this one gets me also but I've never experienced seeing the complainer also be the culprit LOL...interesting

Mar 19Reply

momoretro I love your closet too. 1) Have received things dirty/stained. One seller said "there is pet hair on my items." Why not try and remove it? 2) have had things arrive WET because seller put item in a priority mail document envelope and not an h2O resistant one. 3)Listings should have minimum info - for ex inseam; vintage coach - no one should sell a w/o a photo/mention of creed (unless it's a pre-creed bag). Great vintage sellers like you have all deets in listing as sizes r different now.

Mar 20Reply

apassgtovintage So many great tips and points here! I agree about blurry photos. I also hate when only 1 photo is posted. We get four and a potential of more if you do collages. I like to see the details! I won't like or buy items that are lackluster with pictures. Another thing that bugs me is when you like a picture and people ask you 3 seconds later if you're interested. At that point they lost me as a buyer. OBVIOUSLY I am interested dope, I liked your item!!!! *eye roll city🙄*

May 04Reply

apassgtovintage (Con't)I use my likes to shop. But it's a real turn off for me if I feel like the seller is desperate to make a sale. If you walked into a boutique and the owner followed you around and after each item you looked at asked you if you were interested, you would LEAVE the store, right? It's not etiquette and I often would like to refer people to the etiquette section on each of our dashboards.

May 04Reply

apassgtovintage (Con't) It clearly states not to hound people. I LOvE when sellers say THANK You for your ❤️ and ask me to let them know if I have any questions. So I do that in my shop too. 💌💌

May 04Reply

vintageretroroc @momoretro 1 pet hair compliant, receiving wet items? Oh my! These are both new to me. Keep the comments coming. How are things currently?

May 05Reply

momoretro thanks….love your closet, staying positive :-)

May 06Reply

tattoosandtofu 1. Bad/ blurry photos. 2. Sellers that don't reply. 3. Ppl that don't share (I won't share closets that have zero shares unless they are new). 4. Buyers that haggle over a dollar and then don't reply when you lower the price. 5. Counterfeit/ "tagged as ____ for views". 😡

Sep 19Reply

sarar54 Current pet peeve: lackluster Suggested Users. Great in theory, but the criteria should be more stringent. 50k followers/25 shares? Come on; share the love! SU with zero items for sale? Useless. SU with nothing but used F21 clothes at 2X MSRP? This lowers the quality of the site. I wish listings were vetted; it feels like there is so much junk to wade through to find the gems. Guess that's the thrill of the hunt haha! 😄 Liking so I can keep checking the comments; great topic!

Oct 28Reply

ayasuda1 LOVE your closet!! I'm just down the road in Fremont!! You have some amazing finds here!!! 🎀💕💐✨🌹🌺❤️️💋💋Amy

Nov 11Reply

vintageretroroc @ayasuda1 Hi neighbor! Thanks for reaching out and visiting my closet!

Nov 12Reply

my_o_my_designs @vintageretroroc I just found u from another closet & thought you might like to stop by my closet and check out my goodies. I have many vintage items. More to be posted too! Happy Poshing! 😘

Nov 27Reply

drinksgriffin Hi from the Southeast! Awesome closet. I'm new to Poshmark and I am so impressed with your closet. What I do know is that it takes commitment, hard work and really enjoying this to put a closet like this together. And, have so many respond in a positive way! I've learned good info from your post. Continued success! I can't fit most, but I will share, share share!

Dec 08Reply

thejstore Enjoyed reading this!! I've been on Posh for a little over a month (and addicted) and wondering... if you receive a lowball offer do you even respond?

Dec 17Reply

vintageretroroc @my_o_my_designs Thanks for reaching out! I love vintage. I keep my eye out.

Dec 17Reply

vintageretroroc @drinksgriffin Thanks for visiting my closet. It sort of a creative outlet & yes, it is a commitment. Welcome to PM!

Dec 17Reply

vintageretroroc @thejstore Yes, i do, but I try and be polite even if the offer isn't :) Welcome to PM.

Dec 17Reply

my_o_my_designs @vintageretroroc since it looks like we're having a snow day it gives me a little more time I'm going to post some more items today. Lol Happy Poshing!

Dec 17Reply

larochelle I hi ! my name is rochelle,nice to meet you.isaw that you will be co-hosting soon-Congrats🎉🎉👏👏i almost never miss nightly parties on Pm, so you can count me in to share your closet &send out some cheer💐ialso i manage official_forum (users page) on here 😀just tagged you w the line-up 💝).LMK if you will be uploadin a party announcement at your closet (hope i didnt miss it😱 & il help you spread the word💝cheers & congrats!!!🎉🎉🎉

Mar 01Reply

maidmarian Pricing vintage is hard and vintage is so misunderstood! Beats boutique any day because it's so well made. Like clothes! Today clothes are cheap. Not well made. But vintage is back! We've just gotta carve our niche! Marian 🌹

Mar 04Reply

momogo @vintageretroroc I love when a seller is thoughtful and generous and adds an extra gift. I try to do that on my orders. I really dislike it when a seller uses terrible photos with bad lighting and then doesn't bother to respond to questions

Mar 04Reply

lotus0104 Thanks for hosting tonight! If you have a chance to check out my closet I would love it! HAVE FUN THIS IS YOUR NIGHT!!!! : )

Mar 04Reply

samanthadoc I would really appreciate it if you would make one of my listings a host pick! And congrats on being co host💗💗

Mar 05Reply

aliposhshop I just added some great new items to my closet. Would you check it out for possible host picks? Thanks so much!

Mar 05Reply

discount_aero Congrats on the Co-Hosting! If you're not too busy, do you mind taking a peek at my closet for any possible host picks? That would mean a lot to me! Happy Poshing!

Mar 05Reply

nothing_to_wear Thank you for this posting. I appreciate the conversation and it will keep me on my toes! My biggest issue on here are the low ball offers and praying hands w/ pleading. If you only have $10, maybe you should not be shopping right now?

Mar 08Reply

nothing_to_wear Low ball offers and then I check out their closet only to find high end pieces ( so, clearly they understand the value ) How about contesting the purchase because you don't care for the item when you receive it????? All in all, I've had many more positive experiences than not. Posh on💙

Mar 08Reply

funfreshfab @heatherbradley me too!

Sep 20Reply

zoeykinde Just wanted to say I just found your closet & it’s INCREDIBLE!!!!!

Feb 24Reply

vintageretroroc @zoeykinde Thank you...i've gotten away from a lot of the editing because it was time consuming but I may do more later. Thx for commenting!

Feb 25Reply

shopchicmissy @jeweledonyx I feel you on the pushy sellers! It’s just a bit much really!

Jul 19Reply

shopchicmissy @mopie this! I just got offered 50% off a boutique item I had listed at an already good price which I offered her even lower- I already don’t make really anything on my gently used but on that boutique item she offered me basically less then wholesale price lol Anyway so NICE to hear from all these great Poshers here!

Jul 19Reply

shopchicmissy @jeweledonyx 100% with all of this! ✨⭐️

Jul 19Reply

shopchicmissy @beesknees17 great points! I love love love vintage. It’s so special🌟

Jul 19Reply

sarahnicole412 @apassgtovintage hi!! I’m going back through these comments to get ideas on how to be a better seller!! I wanted to get your feedback based on your comment — typically when someone likes an item, I create a bundle for them with a discounted offer and say thanks so much for the like and stopping by my closet, ask if they have any questions and send them this offer.

Jan 27Reply

sarahnicole412 @apassgtovintage (continuing on) Do you think that would be considered annoying or pressuring? I was trying to do this as a way to build relationship / make sales but obviously don’t want it to be having the opposite effect!!! Thanks!! ❤️

Jan 27Reply