I bought these, washed a few times as directed, to activate them or whatever that does. And my son immediately decides he’s too big and just wants underwear. And just like that I spend $40 on something completely unnecessary! Figures. So these are literally BRAND NEW. Never touched a butt! Just can’t return them because they were washed (in sensitive skin detergents I might add). My loss is your gain. These are really cool. You’ll get both, by the way!