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Lowballs are disrespectful to seller. 🚫🚫🚫 PLEASE be respectful with your OFFERS and I will be happy to ACCEPT or negotiate!!

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360vintagecoll Love this🥂

Dec 04Reply

sumwhereupthere @360vintagecoll I’m so OVER the insulting offers!!!!!🙃

Dec 04Reply

360vintagecoll @sumwhereupthere I mean like really? I can’t go into Macy’s and say... I want that sale item for 75% more than what you are selling it for.....

Dec 04Reply

sumwhereupthere @360vintagecoll I was thinking I would never offer 200k on a 400k house!! Lmao!! 🤣😂

Dec 04Reply

sumwhereupthere @360vintagecoll I don’t even counter anymore. Just decline and block. They would probably be the one to give me one ⭐️ if I accepted the crappy deal!!

Dec 04Reply

360vintagecoll @sumwhereupthere 😂😂🙃😂🤪

Dec 04Reply

jpkurek Preach on sister!

Dec 05Reply

jpkurek @360vintagecoll same! I do that at Macy’s all the time.

Dec 05Reply

jpkurek @sumwhereupthere I thought I was the only one that does the decline/block maneuver

Dec 05Reply

sumwhereupthere @jpkurek I read that someone else did it and it made perfect sense. Why let them into your closet for further frustration???!! It takes me a while to stop seething about it. 👎🙁

Dec 05Reply

jpkurek @sumwhereupthere exactly. I had a bad habit of going in their closet and offering an even more insulting offer on an item. Then I found it healthier to block and take a deep breath! Happy poshing friend

Dec 05Reply

sumwhereupthere @jpkurek that’s hilarious!! Great idea! Happy poshing and happy holidays!!! 🌲🌲😘

Dec 05Reply

360vintagecoll @jpkurek 😂🙃🤪😂

Dec 05Reply

buffybear that's so funny

Dec 06Reply

sumwhereupthere @buffybear thanks! It was EXACTLY how I felt after my last lowball!!

Dec 06Reply

buffybear @sumwhereupthere don't let them bother you, stay groovy

Dec 07Reply

sumwhereupthere @buffybear 😄😘 it’s par for any sales environment. There will always be someone with no respect!

Dec 07Reply

buffybear @sumwhereupthere I certainly understand, we were in business, now retired, thank gawd.

Dec 07Reply

gossipgirl212 lol!!

Dec 07Reply

sumwhereupthere @gossipgirl212 🤣😂🤣😂

Dec 07Reply

traciterm AMEN!! I get so insulted and my husband just says “Don’t even acknowledge it”

Dec 07Reply

avenueposh @jpkurek - that’s funny about going into their closet and doing the same. I never even thought of that!

Dec 10Reply

ellehcar_style 🚫 I agree with you 💯% 🚫

Dec 11Reply

tanyaz1 @lexilay😉🤣😂

Dec 14Reply

lexilay @tanyaz1 😝

Dec 14Reply

tanyaz1 @lexilay that's your guy! Funnier than 💩!!

Dec 14Reply

colorpopcre @tsdk74 hilarious

Dec 18Reply

mish_tosh I just can't. LOL luv it!

Dec 20Reply

rejen_trends 😂😂😂💕💕💕😂😂😂🤭🤭🤯

Dec 21Reply

ladiekh Thanks for all your love & shares .. Happy Holidays 💕

Dec 23Reply

sumwhereupthere @ladiekh MUAH!!! backatcha!!

Dec 23Reply

wild_ophelias 😂😂😂 👏🏻

Dec 23Reply

bold__ 😱😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

Dec 28Reply

almayanina I LOVE THIS! I thought I was the only one blocking them. I had someone offer $5 on a $25 NWT. I counter offered $23, she messaged me asking if $23 was the lowest? I said, yes! And I was sorry if it wasn’t in her budget. She got offended by my comment. LOL...well I was offended by the $5 offer so I blocked her. Happy New Year and thank you for sharing 😘

Dec 31Reply

sumwhereupthere @almayanina the most frustrating thing is that they don't read my listing! I intentionally put this FIRST!! I had tow lowballers give me low stars after I negotiated with them So....the lowballers get their way and give us low stars!! GRRRRRRRR

Dec 31Reply

kalifreshness1 @sumwhereupthere lol. The lowball struggle is real. I complain to my boyfriend he just thinks I’m a big baby

Jan 01Reply

sumwhereupthere @kalifreshness it’s just disrespect. Now, that I just DECLINE AND BLOCK, I feel much better. I’m in control! I suppose if I constantly bickered and settled, I would beat myself up. Glad to have allies in this battle!! ❤️🌹

Jan 01Reply

kalifreshness1 @sumwhereupthere Yes. I am now on the decline and block team. No more revenge for me. Too stressful ❤️

Jan 01Reply

sumwhereupthere @kalifreshness and it really just leads to frustration! They have no conscience, so we lose when we let them rent space in our heads!! 😄

Jan 01Reply

kalifreshness1 @sumwhereupthere I have never thought of it that way. Yes. Love it

Jan 01Reply

sumwhereupthere @kalifreshness check out new picture for this listing! I am livid! Buyer gave me 1 star after I blocked his mom for lowballing He is an absolute IDIOT . I changed my closet to 2/9.99 for some items and he thinks I did it because of his mom. The lowballers and cheap sales are the most disrespectful buyers!!!

Jan 13Reply

ndloria Thanks for all the shares! 😊

Jan 14Reply

dreagamb 😂😂😂😂 Drives me nuts!

Jan 16Reply

sumwhereupthere @dreagamb and then I get a ONE ⭐️ from an idiot who lowballed me and created new account to get item!

Jan 16Reply

dreagamb @sumwhereupthere Stop it!! Unbelievable what some will do for a deal. Hope you have a wonderful day today and those one offs are few and far between!!

Jan 16Reply

sumwhereupthere @dreagamb thanks! I’ve met more respectable people on here than not, but I just can’t believe how some people THINK and believe their behavior is acceptable. Enjoy your day!! 😄😄😄

Jan 16Reply

grripy Omg Yes! Thank you! I did not know how to block these insane people.

Jan 27Reply

sumwhereupthere @grripy thanks for the offer on the wedges! I want to accept but I have been getting low ratings from buyers who expect my used items to be in new condition! Before i accept, please know that I described these as best as possible. They are indeed used but still beautiful. I tried to show the minor flaws. Let me know if that is still ok and I will ship out today!! 😄

Jan 27Reply

sumwhereupthere @grripy and thanks for the shares!! 😘

Jan 27Reply

grripy @sumwhereupthere I saw the pics no worries. The wedges are super cute and my size. I have a matching purse that I was going to sell but I have been getting 10 and 5 dollar offers on a brand new coach purse so I will just keep it now that I will be getting matching wedges. :-)

Jan 27Reply

sumwhereupthere @grripy ok, girl! Shipping out today!! 😘

Jan 27Reply

grripy @sumwhereupthere I usually send a necklace, a belt or a cute top with the item someone bought. That usually gets me a decent rating. I get crazy people too. You don't need to send me anything extra. I will be more than happy with the shoes. Ty for your post.

Jan 27Reply

sumwhereupthere @grripy I always send a treat! And your box has something too. Not much, but a thank you for the business. And I got a 1 Star from someone who I blocked and they set up another account to make reasonable purchase. PM won’t help. So, I’ll just continue to block. If I can’t give good service , then I don’t want the business. 😄

Jan 27Reply

becka870 Thanks for all the shares!

Jan 27Reply

grripy @sumwhereupthere That person is a skunk! I feel that eveeyone who sees this post just needs to block that jerk.

Jan 27Reply

sumwhereupthere @grripy thanks for your support! I think I take this too seriously and just need to chill. Not everyone is happy and they take it out on others. Your wedges are on the btw!! 😄😄😄

Jan 27Reply

sumwhereupthere @becka870 sharing is caring!! 😘

Jan 27Reply

megmctear I find this so off-putting!

Jan 31Reply

prettypilot I just got offered $30 for an $85 item. Good grief people.

Feb 17Reply

sumwhereupthere @prettypilot I simply do not understand where people get their disrespect!!! 😩

Feb 17Reply

jezabelscloset How do you block those people?

Feb 20Reply

sumwhereupthere @jezabel3js on their closet listings page, there is a box with an arrow upper right corner. Click it and options will come up and the last one is BLOCK USER. Viola! They can’t shop your closet anymore!! 😄

Feb 20Reply

jezabelscloset @sumwhereupthere thanks much hun😊😘

Feb 20Reply

sumwhereupthere @jezabel3js 😄👏👏👏👍

Feb 20Reply

carolhazen Bless you for this thread and Amen!! never considered the Block maneuver but will use it now! grrrr.

Feb 24Reply

sumwhereupthere @carolhazen 👍👍👍 saves a lot of frustration!

Feb 24Reply

carolhazen and Yes the disrespect is degrading. One woman after I had my purse at 50% off , offered me half of that! I countered with a dollar less. I will just Block from now on, May I please copy how you said it? and Thank you for your help and time!! my new beautiful PFF!! smiles,

Feb 24Reply

sumwhereupthere @carolhazen of course! I learned from others and am glad to share my knowledge! It’s really empowering to BLOCK. 😄😄😄

Feb 24Reply

shoppergirlnyc LOVE THIS!!! I had someone offer me $20 for an item priced over $100. 🙄 over it. I wish Posh had an actual messaging system so that these things can be properly addressed.

Feb 27Reply

sumwhereupthere @shoppergirlnyc i agree! Nothing seems to help! I’ve added 🚫LOWBALLS to beginning of all my listings. People have such little respect!!!!!! 😩

Feb 27Reply

1chicago_chix 😄🤗🤗🤗🤗👌🏾👍🏾

Mar 02Reply

vstar76 Been dealing with the same thing lately. So frustrating! Over $250 bundle with a $60 offer! I have no words.

Mar 09Reply

sumwhereupthere @vstar76 i feel your pain! I just don’t understand where the audacity comes from? Did you counter? I found that countering and making a deal with this mentality just leads to 2 or 3 stars. These people are never happy. So sorry you are going through this! ❤️❤️

Mar 09Reply

vstar76 @sumwhereupthere I did counter and then she dropped 2 items and made the same offer for 2 items that added up to 97$ then when we finally reached an agreement on price she cancelled her order. So I'm done with any dealings with her.

Mar 09Reply

sumwhereupthere @vstar76 unfortunately, that doesn’t surprise me. Because they show you who they are from the beginning is why i have nipped it early. I tried and it always ends the same. Oprah says, “if someone shows you who they are, believe them”. 😘

Mar 09Reply

camps_boutique Omg!!! Can I use this??

Mar 14Reply

sumwhereupthere @camps_boutique of course!!!! 😄😄😄

Mar 14Reply

bethmc1233 👍🏻👏

Mar 22Reply

sumwhereupthere @bethmc1233 👍👍😳

Mar 23Reply

jpkurek @kugelschreiber I’m with you with getting the bad vibe thing. One low rating will kill you

Mar 25Reply

sumwhereupthere @jpkurek as you can see by one screen shot, someone went around the system after being blocked and I’m afraid I won’t ever recover my 5⭐️s. Alas, I move on.... thanks for the support and smiles!! 😄😄😄

Mar 25Reply

sumwhereupthere @kugelschreiber and even though our ratings are private, I think the buyer was pretty uneducated. . All over a pair of earrings. 😳😩

Mar 25Reply

hannahjj99 Thank goodness someone said something about this. Someone offered me 3 dollars for an item... 5 cents for me???? THATS A NO FROM ME

Apr 12Reply

lkap612 @sumwhereupthere I had this exact thing just happen to me not even a month ago. I went back and forth with this lady for an entire day as she kept counter-offering $1 more than the last time. Finally I got tired of it and declined the offer. An hour later she offers my original counter price and I didn't know if I wanted to accept at that point. Should have listened to my gut and ignored it but I accepted. I mailed it out THAT DAY with beautiful wrapping and a thank you card.

Apr 19Reply

lkap612 @sumwhereupthere Fast forward 3 days and I get notification she gave me 3 stars with no reason. Obviously it was because she didn't get her way with pricing. Oh my god, was I heated!! I wanted to confront her but I thought better once I cooled down and just blocked her. That's what I do now. Someone lowballs, I block

Apr 19Reply

sumwhereupthere @lkap612 I’m soooo sorry this happened to you. I’m pretty sure if we did a study, the lowballers probably do this more often than we know. I go with my gut now and risk a sale than have to deal with it and the low stars because they are too dense and immature to make a decent deal and rating. It’s in PM policy that you can’t give low rating because you don’t LIKE the item. But, that happens too.

Apr 19Reply

lkap612 @sumwhereupthere I can't believe the audacity of some people. I would never dream of intentionally sabotaging someone's rating just because I didn't get my way. It's a shame. I'm sorry that it happened to you as well. It's such a crappy feeling. Especially when you know you gave good service. I've been selling on here for a little over a year and I feel like lately the lowball offers have been at an all time high

Apr 19Reply

sumwhereupthere @lkap612 I totally agree. I have one right now I’m letting expire. Once you understand the motive is self serving, it’s easier to stomach. I’ve written to PM about low ratings and they just say they are working on better system. I sell my household stuff on another site and MUCH better rating system!

Apr 19Reply

lkap612 @sumwhereupthere I know, I got the same email reply from them as well. I was so upset because her bad review ruined my perfect 5 star rating. I know no one can see it but I know it's there and that it isn't a fair rating. Ohhhh it really boils my blood. I also sell my other items on a diff site and I never have ratings issues and very seldom low ballers

Apr 19Reply

sumwhereupthere @lkap612 ha! Did you try to type the other site name? 😳. I felt the same way about my 5⭐️ rating. But, now it’s kind of liberating knowing I can’t get it back but I plead majority of my buyers. There will always be someone who isn’t happy no matter what.

Apr 19Reply

lkap612 @sumwhereupthere Very true, very true. I try to always keep that in mind. No sense getting worked up cause then they win. I just wish pm would put a cap on how low a person can offer. Like 30% or 40% the listed price. It seems like a reasonable request.

Apr 19Reply

sumwhereupthere @lkap612 good point! But some people LIKE lowballers. They are getting more than they would at a yard sale! 😳😩

Apr 19Reply

sumwhereupthere @jcfashioniste I always look at their closets, too! Sometimes, they are new and I give them a pass and ignore, but TSK TSK TSK to all who disrespect fellow SELLERS. There should be more courtesy and respect!! Grrrrrr!!!

Apr 21Reply

sumwhereupthere @toddpurrtuzzi I always look at their closets and give a pass to newbies and just ignore. But, TSK TSK TSK to fellow sellers who disrespect!!! Grrrrrr!

Apr 21Reply

sumwhereupthere @jcfashioniste very good point! About the consignors but, that means they are BUSINESS people who are just snakes in the grass! Even worse!

Apr 21Reply

sumwhereupthere @jcfashioniste did you see the above screen capture about one I blocked? Got a new account, paid full price and gave me ONE ⭐️! PM wouldn’t help....just wrong!

Apr 21Reply

cristadoll @cristadoll 👍👍 I’m with you, so rude! I would have to steal my merchandise to make anything. ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

Apr 28Reply

sumwhereupthere @cristadoll hat is so true!!! 👍💗💗

Apr 28Reply

jonderwal_12 Love this! Can I steal it😊

Apr 30Reply

sumwhereupthere @jonderwal_12 yes! I borrowed from someone else! 😄

Apr 30Reply

jonderwal_12 Awesome thank you 💜

Apr 30Reply

lovelace77 I love when other poshers also post against lowballing🤗

May 03Reply

sumwhereupthere @lovelace77 i just want buyers to KNOW my stance! Sometimes, it just doesn’t matter though!! 🙀

May 03Reply

warholic89 Thank you so much for the sweet gift and card! It was no problem at all 💋. Happy poshing! ❤️

May 03Reply

sumwhereupthere @warholic89 glad you got it and THANK YOU!! ❤️❤️

May 03Reply

nalasboutique @fefedills Really??? That's an insult. Sorry to hear that happened to you. I experienced the same on an item I sent an offer out on. I shared my offer chart to their closet and let them cancel the offer. I'm not responding to low-ballers.😡

Jul 11Reply

nalasboutique @sumwhereupthere Love ❤️ this! May I use it, please?

Jul 11Reply

sumwhereupthere @nalasboutique yes! Share away! It doesn’t stop it though! But, it wails make you feel better to see it in your closet!! 😖🔥🔥🔥

Jul 11Reply

sumwhereupthere @fefedills unfortunately, being a posh ambassador doesn’t make a disrespectful person change. So sorry and I feel your pain! Grrrr🔥🔥🔥😩

Jul 11Reply

anquan_brown I need this

Sep 07Reply

sumwhereupthere @anquan_brown have at it!!! 😄👍

Sep 07Reply

anquan_brown @sumwhereupthere thanks

Sep 07Reply

lilos89 Wow someone actually made another acct to buy from you!!! Sounds like my posh stalker

Oct 30Reply

sumwhereupthere @lilosboutique yup. Just to give me a one ⭐️! 🙃

Oct 30Reply

sumwhereupthere @nlafrancis it makes me laugh all the time!! ❤️👍

Nov 29Reply

babyblue472 Hi,gorgeousness! Would you mind if I used the main picture on this post? I have the same exact problems & I'm done being insulted by rude low ballers! If you don't understand the time&effort,that we sellers,put forth or all of the fees,just for selling on here....you shouldn't be shopping on POSTMARK! LOW BALL OFFERS ARE INSULTING & RUDE TO THE SELLER& RUDE&A WASTE OF TIME TO THE LOWBALLER!

Jun 13Reply

sumwhereupthere @babyblue472 of course! Spread the word that we won’t be disrespected!! 😘

Jun 13Reply

babyblue472 @sumwhereupthere thanks so much! Im going to tag you on one of my posts, it shows exactly what is acceptable & not! if you don't have the charts listed, feel free to use them :)

Jun 14Reply

sumwhereupthere @babyblue472 thanks! I’ve seen the charts. No one seems to care ! You will still get lowballs from disrespectful buyers. I just ignore them now. If they can’t figure it out, that’s their problem!!! ❤️❤️

Jun 14Reply

babyblue472 @sumwhereupthere you are much more patient, than I am.lol.That's a great attitude to have, about the issue,though, to your credit! I'm a bit more blunt,when I receive lowball offers.I usually explain all of the reasons,why their offer is so rude&then I block them.lol.

Jun 14Reply