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inthecadesert
@chellebelle624 amen!!!
chellebelle624
@inthecadesert thanks girlie! i was hoping this wasn't too snarky! but I'm soooo sick of this :)
styled
👏👏amén!!!
chellebelle624
@rachelshoplist me too!!! Sooo rude
pk1pk2
nicely said!
rosiejacab
@chellebelle624 i completely agree...sharing this!
chellebelle624
@rosiejacab ❤️
dlatriceb
@chellebelle624 I so need this on my closet.
chellebelle624
haha @dlatriceb you can use it for sure! I think its just a common sense thing that everyone should follow! ;)
fmomansky
🙌amen to that!!! 👏👏👏👏👏
bella4
@chellebelle624 love this 👍
chellebelle624
@bella4 thank you!
bella4
@chellebelle624 😉
janekovlim
Some people told me to order or hold for them then they end up disappeared ;(
chellebelle624
@janekovlim I know! Its so rude!!! :( We should all treat other ladies on here with the respect we want to receive!
janekovlim
Just do good Hun .... Still there are lot of nice people out there ;)
heygorgeous
🙈 the worst is when you create a bundle and delete some of the original posts and then POOF!! I'll never delete ever again 🙌
chellebelle624
@heygorgeous YES!!! i learned my lesson the hard way :(
chellebelle624
@brittney928
chellebelle624
@monchito123
ventiquadglam
LOLOL "this is not a site to practice your negotiation skills" I wish it said that on the posh blog!😂👏
chellebelle624
@cheri10 exactly!!! thats so annoying and rude!
tammysbeachwear
Well said:)
madianite
👍
chellebelle624
@verob1441 👍. 😘
lari0323
Amen! They ask lower price or if you can do certian price you answer back and they disapear! Sooo anoying ppl dont realize we have real jobs out there!!!
chellebelle624
@lari0323 hahaha you got that right
hinson88
Absolutely!!
chellebelle624
@hinson88 :)
dressyu
@chellebelle624 YES yes Yes👍👍👍👍
tatteredrose1
@chellebelle624 thank you so much for this I hope you don't mind but I'm going to copy it I just wasted my time this weekend I hate it!!!!!!
chellebelle624
@tatteredrose1 i don't mind at all! Spread the love around! lol maybe it will help people stop doing it!!!
jdcuba
@chellebelle624 it aggravates me so much when they do this! I hate it even more when I lower the price item and put my very lowest price on there, a lower than I was ever planning to do, but I did it just for that person and to just sell the item right then and there and then they don't purchase. Now that low price is on there for everyone to read. Then you either just leave it there and be ready to offer that price to everyone else, or delete the item and repost it, which makes one loose all the followers that item had. That just happened to me and it made me so mad! I blocked the person! I think it's rude! If you are not going to buy then why ask for prices to be lowered?
chellebelle624
@jdcuba yes girl! That kept happening to me so i just stopped responding. then it got to the point where people would negotiate and i would drop the price and then they don't buy it still!! ugh! bottom line is I'm not desperate, and from now on I'm just not gonna lower my prices much more than what they are marked. they are already very fairly priced!
ynall
I felt like blocking a user today for this. Especially ones that are so rude! They act like they're doing you a favor. It gets old fast! Especially since the item was already mark down super low because of a previous posher who didn't buy...
chellebelle624
@ynall yes! hopefully this post can be shared and spread awareness to show this can't keep happening!
cynthiamorales
@chellebelle624 couldn't agree with this more.
chellebelle624
@cynthiamorales :)
suzannahb44
Lol I love these 😆 I hate when ppl do that , and they ask for a bundle and u put it together and than they disappear 😑 waste of my time since I take posh seriously 😎
chellebelle624
@suzannahb44 I know! I use these funds from posh to pay for my daughters dancing. without it, i wouldn't be able to let her dance. So i take this as a part time job. I am very considerate of my shoppers and try to help people out as well. I just wish everyone was as considerate and serious about it!
suzannahb44
🙋🙋I agree with u 100% I use the funds from here to pay for odds and ends for my home , I'm a single mom of 3 boys 2 are in college and trust me they always need something , hopefully taking care of their needs from deodorant to razors or mens crap lol will pay off when they get their degree 😁😁😁😁 can't wait for that day . Than they an buy my tampons since I have reached menapause yet lmaoooooo 😆😆😆😆sorry I can't help I joke a lot 😂😂😂
suzannahb44
Since I haven't reaches menopause yet Lool spell check
chellebelle624
@suzannahb44 hahhaha your making my night!!!! hilarious. i feel ya though. i know what you mean. its hard. thankfully theres plenty of ladies like you that keep it pleasant!
suzannahb44
Lol I know thank god for the pleasant ladies 😍 I've come across some wachos on here 😤 I've had to rip some new a holes for sure 😳 , don't mess with a single mom of 3 boys from Dearborn michigan , 🙋
chellebelle624
@suzannahb44 you got that right! I know you have seen it all! You DEF know how to handle these girls if you can handle 3 boys by yourself! WHEW. i just have one girl and I'm exhausted thinking about it!
suzannahb44
Honey u have no clue what these boys do to me 😭😭😭 my hair is always standing up and my eyes are buldged outta my head 👀👀👀 they drive me insane 😖😖😖 they are much taller than me and stronger , so u can imagine me trying to kick their assss 😐 it don't work lol
sweet_hatttrick
@chellebelle624 Sigh. Thank you for articulating common courtesy that seems to be lacking with too many. I spent all of Sunday 8am - 11pm with a Pisher wanting a bundle, changing the items, low balling my generous discount ...back n forth and the disappeared for hours, then back for more "negotiating." I gave her an awesome deal for 4 items already priced low - gave 20% off... She wanted a better deal. By 11pm I was exhausted & my poor husband was begging me to end it. I did. My kindness was taken advantage of the whole day. I learned I've got to be firm, reasonable and not manipulated. So thank you for expressing what so many of us feel💐😘
chellebelle624
@sweet_hatttrick that is HORRIBLE! I am so sorry you went through that. Luckily i have had pretty good experiencing with bundles, but i know what you mean about kindness being taken advantage of! Happens to me daily! Hopefully this will circulate. I like to think the best of people and I hope that maybe they don't realize what they are doing. Maybe when they see posts like this, it'll be like a reality smack in the face and then they will stop! haha heres to hoping right ??
sweet_hatttrick
@chellebelle624 I absolutely agree with you. I'd rather believe in the goodness of people and soooo many are in our lives. POSHMARK just reflects the world at large so we see the good the bad and the ugly! I think a sense of humor is Key!!! And great GFs to share. 💐💃💝
chellebelle624
@sweet_hatttrick your so right!!! You hit the nail on the head with that! I'm so blessed and grateful for most of the women I have met and chatted with here! 🌷🌷 all in all it's a wonderful community
qidiva
Yuussss!
mrsalliexo
👏👏👏👏👏
chellebelle624
@qidiva @allisondickard thanks ladies!! So fed up with it ;)
mrsalliexo
@chellebelle624 It drives me insane. I don't understand the manners on here. Some people need to go to etiquette school ✌️😊😛
chellebelle624
@allisondickard EXACTY! took the words right out of my mouth! common courtesy is clearly a thing of the past! I'm lucky my momma taught me properly! haha
chellebelle624
@allisondickard and I'm looking at your closet right now! TO DIE FOR! gorgeous taste.
jessyface4
this is so spot on. I have something similar in my closet too! WHY would anyone make an offer on something that they have no intention of purchasing? Just to screw with me and see if I'll accept so they can disappear? PEOPLE ARE SO RUDE. Thanks for helping spread common courtesy!
chellebelle624
@jessyface4 I don't know! I never comment on anything unless i plan on purchasing. sometimes if i see something gorgeous, i share and let the seller know how pretty it is, but i am always up front if i don't have the money! and if i can't afford it, i don't try to low ball! ugh
billyaire33
@chellebelle624 I have had all these wack a doodles in my closet as well! What's even more appalling is that some are sellers with no shame. Let's be positive and best wishes to all that we get serious buyers only. And sell all items in our closets this season!
chellebelle624
@vforever98 Yes! positivity!! :)
drea04
AGREED...SO RUDE WHEN THIS HAPPENS ...
drea04
@chellebelle624 I HOPE YOU DONT MIND IF I SHARE ..
chellebelle624
@drea04 share away! lol
drea04
@chellebelle624 thanks so much 😊
caroliaw
#truth
trendkavid
👏👏👏👏😒 when people do that
tracee08
@chellebelle624 amen love it...true i hate people ask you to lower price then dont follow through now i will not lower until u are ready to buy that minute..my favorite is lowballers im all about good deal but my prices already low i gotta make something after posh cut
aprilaries
Good !! Amen ! Love that !
mskrystie
Couldnt have said it better! I dealt with so many girls on here like that :/
chellebelle624
@mskrystie @aprilaries @tracee08 drives me crazy! wheres the common courtesy!
aprilaries
Lol I know ! I'm new here and pockmark n I been saw that a lot can drive any body crazy
aprilaries
Nice 2 meet u girls !! I' still learning my way around !
britgirl2
@sweet_hatttrick , do you remember that persons name as I am dealing with someone now that has been negotiating and disappearing for the past few days, she asks me to bundle then disappears and comes back saying she doesn't remember what she bundled, adds more likes then still doesn't complete, I am about ready to block her😁 @chellebelle624 , Michelle are you British as I haven't heard the word sarky for a long time,lol😘
sweet_hatttrick
@britgirl2 Hi. Ughhh There are a number of wackos who do this. You set the limits and terms. In my humble opinion, I'd rather cut my losses and walk away from the unlikely sale rather than be driven crazy and waste my time and energy. I had one last week that spent 2 Hours back n forth & disappearing. I put limits and eventually blocked. She had friend tag me with apologies and did buy 2 of the zillion pieces she wanted. Breathe!
nugget_love
Amen!!!
chellebelle624
@britgirl2 haha nope not British but it would be SO awesome if i was! I am sorry your going through that with one of the girls on here :( its such a shame!
britgirl2
@sweet_hatttrick , it's started up again,lol😘
sweet_hatttrick
@britgirl2 OMG. Ok take charge. Tell her how it will work for you. Set the limits. Eg. Thanks for your interest. Please tag me when your ready to purchase your bundle. Please write down your final list of items and I'll bundle for your immediate purchase." Or something like that. If she starts in just say we've spent two hours on this and I'm available to set up your bundle when you're ready to buy. Good luck. Or can tell her it's not working out thanks for stopping by. Etc. 🙏👏🙏👏🙏👏🙏🌈🌈🌈
britgirl2
@sweet_hatttrick ,lol we finally closed the deal👏👏she did have an emergency in her family so that made it ok
sweet_hatttrick
@britgirl2 Congrats!! Let's break out the champagne! I hope her emergency is ok. Some others are just wacky
sweet_hatttrick
@britgirl2 OMG. R u sitting down? Same SAME person as mine!!! (Mouth open here). Check my sales. You'll see. About week ago.
sweet_hatttrick
@britgirl2 And alleged emergency too. But not after I blocked
britgirl2
@sweet_hatttrick 😱😂😂lol that is too funny, I will have to go check your sale😘💃💃💃
sarar54
This x1000!
sweet_hatttrick
@britgirl2 Dying here. Ended up 2 polo tops. After zillion choices in and out
britgirl2
@sweet_hatttrick , hey don't feel so bad the negotiations went one all day Thurs while I was getting ready for a trip and continued until today after hours and lost count of how many item changes,lol, she must have a procrastination problem😘. Now I will probably go thru getting the acceptance like you did,lol
sweet_hatttrick
@britgirl2 OMG. Laughing & crying. I forgot... Yes nightmare BS prob to accept. I honestly don't know if a game. She had friend texting apology and begging to unblock. Let's err on understanding side. Could be a psych processing prob. Poor lady. 💐🌈
britgirl2
@sweet_hatttrick , will keep you posted😄😰
sweet_hatttrick
@britgirl2 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
britgirl2
@sweet_hatttrick ,lol you are too funny😂😘
xsrizr
Love this👍👍👍
toopretty
@chellebelle624 I'm glad I read this. I was getting a little frustrated!!
erikagannon
The Make an Offer Feature is here!! Swing by my closet for details girlie!
motherskiss
Posh has an awesome new option on the app that allow private price negotiations. If you accept an offer it automatically changes the price for you. I experienced it this weekend and it is incredibly cool!!!
chellebelle624
@motherskiss i just experienced this the first time this weekend too! so awesome!
ontheblvrd
Love this! Well said
virgomoons
I will only negotiate via the Offer feature now! It's amazing! No words exchanged, buyer can't back out. Fantastic.
chellebelle624
@bellissima1 I am so happy they put that in! Such a wonderful feature
gingerius56
❤️
magnetic1
Amen to that! Some people are just on here to play games!
shkoda56
Well said !!!
a_original
🙌
derinda
Love this! I spent almost an hour putting and negotiating a bundle and she never ever got back with me! Happened more times then I can count!
bohobeauty97
Thanks for following me! Check out my closet! All prices are negotiable!
ksadog22
True story!! 👍👍🙀🙀💃💃
jamie3592
@chellebelle624 this is my thoughts exactly do u mind if I repost?
chellebelle624
@jamie3592 I don't mind at all :)
forrestsnowcat
Amen! Put up a similar sign in my closet.
chefjan
So very true
signedblake
I recently blocked a user bc she KEPT low balling me ($3? Seriously?!), asking me to change prices on things, take extra pictures, bundle this, bundle that but never made a single purchase! Then I go to her page and see that everything is price waaaay higher than everything in my closet and you have the NERVE to be asking me to sell you something for $3?! I was livid! Just so rude and disrespectful. BLOCKED! #byeFelicia
chellebelle624
@blakevond OMG! How rude!!! I hate that. I can't tell you how many times I have had people back out on me. I'm loving that new "make an offer" button! 3 dollars??!? No way
sbladdick
THIS! And don't get huffy when I refuse your offer or don't respond to "do you trade?" When every item clearly states that I don't!
chellebelle624
@sbladdick yes i agree! Drives me crazy lol
thriftadventure
Amen!!
lauras_boutique
@chellebelle624 💕💋Hi Michelle! My name is Laura, and I am new to Poshmark so I wanted to introduce myself and say hello! 😀💕💗 I have already met so many sweet and amazing women that I feel so lucky that I can be a part of this community!😍🌹🌺 You have a beautiful closet, and I look forward to talking to you again soon! I just added a new following game to my closet if you would like to join in please do!! 😀🌹Have a fabulous day! Laura 💕💋
bunnypuff
This is hilarious! :)
dalisstar
somebody finally said it 🙌🙌🙌
gaile
@chellebelle624 Thanks for saying everything I have wanted to say!
shutupandstrut
I love this! !!
ladyxiong
@chellebelle624 Love this!! Been getting some of these lately & it's starting to annoy me.
cortjosh
Amen!
becks80
Agreed 👌
skyerandi
👌
love4luxe
👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏 I couldn't agree more! 👆👆👆👆 @tfilip04
tfilip04
Absolutely!! I can't get over some of the incredible offers I get @chellebelle624 @love4luxe It makes me shake my head!
chellebelle624
@tfilip04 @love4luxe me too. Crazy people! Lol😜
chellebelle624
@4digger91 I do give my buyers plenty of time. But I have had too many people negotiate prices and then never purchase. I give my buyers plenty of time. And if i make a bundle for someone and they are negotiating back and forth with Me then I'm sure they have time to hit the "buy" button. If they don't have the time, an honest buyer will tell me and we go from there. But going back and forth all day negotiating and then disappearing without a word, is a no go in my closet
chellebelle624
@4digger91 and sorry to hear about your deal falling through!! Bummer 😞
texas_posh_gal
@chellebelle624 💕Amen PFF Sista!💕 Thank you for saying this out loud and that goes for both of your posts! Another PFF has included in her rules regarding Posh compliant closets for "Newbies" a note RE: PM taking 20%. Therefore, you sometimes have to mark items up in order to have room for negotiation. I learned today I need to mark items "Price Firm" and the amount I have already dropped the item.
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